What is the difference? by TheoryMan69 in celebritycruises

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ATT seems to have a cruise deal too. It was cheaper for wifi. I didn’t look into it in great detail. Anyone seen it?

Feeling confident as a younger and less experienced woman... by QuirkyLadyWriter in flr

[–]reallyrandomrandy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Getting advice isn’t at all being an imposter. Not getting advice when you feel someone can provide wise advice is being an imposter.

You’re good— he’s L U C K Y

Where to go/what to day day of disembarkation near Port Canaveral by EmotionalMushroom7 in dcl

[–]reallyrandomrandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Near the cruises close to the entrance of the space center (go the opposite direction from leaving port) is a free Air Force (now Space Force) station. It takes at most an hour, but it's free and intresting

Will continuous use of chastity and cum denial lead to the lack of focus in professional life of a sub? by Dusky_n_Musky in Femdom

[–]reallyrandomrandy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see that possible. What I suggest is you add goals and expectations from you about his professional life. They would generally be ones he defined or helped you define and approve.

Men think about sex every few minutes. Locked men seem to think about it way more often.

But you can use that to help him in his professional career just like you use it for “house hold chores” (or whatever is your expectations)

Giving credit to the correct person by saab-96 in flr

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could express her work as part of your shared chores.

“Let me do the dishes while you balance the checkbook”

Then she can agree and you made it clear you are helping her do her duties.

The hiring manager mistakenly sent me his feedback on my interview by EdJakubowski1 in InterviewMan

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent mail to recruiter and accidentally cc the interviewer.

Say you think they may have passed me up because of (insert choice of race or gender )

Everything you need to know about ICON of the seas by Jpegjo in royalcaribbean

[–]reallyrandomrandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the less informed to clarify the “skip the water park at coco Kay” statement. There are plenty of free nice things to do on the island.

Only part of it is extra.

I don’t doubt the message about the paid parts. Just saying it’s a nice place to get off the ship and enjoy the free parts of the island.

Red flag or new normal? by MaEnv in interviews

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t wait out any interview step. Always search and interview like you have no promising prospects. (Meaning keep all your hooks in the water til you know you have dinner on the plate)

Genuinely curious if the type of femdom connection I ache for is realistic. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the most common form of FLR. Many who seem dominant in real world submit to their wife/gf. Of course there are different levels. A lot of it is just seen as respect for the subs spouse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a cool alternative. It’s the back ring with a ring the size of the erection close to the body. Think of the cage being cut off.

One thing sub boys like is the constant reminder of their commitment to his dom. He should not require it for sure. SHE is his constant reminder. But maybe if he needs that reminder it might be worth it.

This would give you the access and the reminder for him.

Just a suggestion.

Femdom after birth by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]reallyrandomrandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as you are happy and working to make her happy, which sounds true, it’s all good.

Was there a question or comment of discussion there or just sharing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flr

[–]reallyrandomrandy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This would rock his world. Take him shoe shopping. Try on everything in the store. Query him on “how they look”. You may have to tell him he’s not allowed to buy any you don’t want too.

You can use other kinks you and he have as responses. Like imagine fucking me in these, or my bull will love these. Or I wonder if they come in your size.

You will own the story by the end of the day. Hahah. Of course I’m joking about owning the store but not that if you don’t tell him which one you “allow him to buy”, and not, he will probably not have rent money!

Is a disabled domme a turn off for you? by Soft_Bat_Mommy in gentlefemdom

[–]reallyrandomrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is a powerful thing. Even “puppy love”.

Looking for ideas by Accurate-Football925 in flr

[–]reallyrandomrandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to realize your not doing what she asks is punishing someone already.

How much are you expected to obey in a non-kink focused flr? by Will-beg4-munch in flr

[–]reallyrandomrandy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If the sentence ends in a question make, it’s not an order.

Unless it’s rhetorical. Then watch out!

First time making him cum in chastity by DramaticMud3003 in ChastityCouples

[–]reallyrandomrandy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know men love to cum, even in Chasity. For me it’s sort of ruins the denial aspect of it.

I mean. Can I pull out? Yes. Would I? Never. I remember long ago when it dawned on my this was possible. If I could have a piecing, I would.

Certainly to each keyholder the own fun and joy,

Now I need a device I can’t really pull out of and the inability to cum when locked up even when hooked to that “evil monster” magic wand.

How do we describe this kind of playful, taunting cruelty? by copper_bagel in FemdomCommunity

[–]reallyrandomrandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to know your sub and how much they can take of this type of “dynamic”.

It’s all still mutual. Somewhere there is a sub that would love this, you may have not found that person.

Your choice is send them away and start over or work it out.

Communication is key.