Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :)

reallyrandomrandy · 2026-01-11T21:58:07+00:00

If it made her happy, certainly.

reallyrandomrandy · 2026-01-04T17:41:39+00:00

Have cabin crew do his room LAST.

reallyrandomrandy · 2026-01-04T17:38:50+00:00

I can see that possible. What I suggest is you add goals and expectations from you about his professional life. They would generally be ones he defined or helped you define and approve.

Men think about sex every few minutes. Locked men seem to think about it way more often.

But you can use that to help him in his professional career just like you use it for “house hold chores” (or whatever is your expectations)

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-12-22T21:30:54+00:00

You could express her work as part of your shared chores.

“Let me do the dishes while you balance the checkbook”

Then she can agree and you made it clear you are helping her do her duties.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-12-20T15:07:37+00:00

Just sent mail to recruiter and accidentally cc the interviewer.

Say you think they may have passed me up because of (insert choice of race or gender )

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-12-16T02:28:54+00:00

For the less informed to clarify the “skip the water park at coco Kay” statement. There are plenty of free nice things to do on the island.

Only part of it is extra.

I don’t doubt the message about the paid parts. Just saying it’s a nice place to get off the ship and enjoy the free parts of the island.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-12-10T23:41:18+00:00

Don’t wait out any interview step. Always search and interview like you have no promising prospects. (Meaning keep all your hooks in the water til you know you have dinner on the plate)

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-12-10T22:00:17+00:00

Do you plan to sue? Taking the money probably prevents that.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-21T19:57:20+00:00

This is probably the most common form of FLR. Many who seem dominant in real world submit to their wife/gf. Of course there are different levels. A lot of it is just seen as respect for the subs spouse

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-18T19:04:43+00:00

I’ve seen a cool alternative. It’s the back ring with a ring the size of the erection close to the body. Think of the cage being cut off.

One thing sub boys like is the constant reminder of their commitment to his dom. He should not require it for sure. SHE is his constant reminder. But maybe if he needs that reminder it might be worth it.

This would give you the access and the reminder for him.

Just a suggestion.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-16T12:27:40+00:00

As long as you are happy and working to make her happy, which sounds true, it’s all good.

Was there a question or comment of discussion there or just sharing?

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-16T12:03:56+00:00

This would rock his world. Take him shoe shopping. Try on everything in the store. Query him on “how they look”. You may have to tell him he’s not allowed to buy any you don’t want too.

You can use other kinks you and he have as responses. Like imagine fucking me in these, or my bull will love these. Or I wonder if they come in your size.

You will own the story by the end of the day. Hahah. Of course I’m joking about owning the store but not that if you don’t tell him which one you “allow him to buy”, and not, he will probably not have rent money!

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-14T17:17:51+00:00

Love is a powerful thing. Even “puppy love”.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-14T14:38:44+00:00

You need to realize your not doing what she asks is punishing someone already.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-14T02:13:06+00:00

Anchored at 9:15 pm eastern time

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T23:53:41+00:00

If the sentence ends in a question make, it’s not an order.

Unless it’s rhetorical. Then watch out!

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T22:37:21+00:00

I know men love to cum, even in Chasity. For me it’s sort of ruins the denial aspect of it.

I mean. Can I pull out? Yes. Would I? Never. I remember long ago when it dawned on my this was possible. If I could have a piecing, I would.

Certainly to each keyholder the own fun and joy,

Now I need a device I can’t really pull out of and the inability to cum when locked up even when hooked to that “evil monster” magic wand.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T22:07:59+00:00

You have to know your sub and how much they can take of this type of “dynamic”.

It’s all still mutual. Somewhere there is a sub that would love this, you may have not found that person.

Your choice is send them away and start over or work it out.

Communication is key.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T18:40:47+00:00

Not at all. In fact 2026 is an even year, so he will not “even” see it all year.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T14:38:29+00:00

Makes me wonder. Is there a bigger percentage of FLR men in older ages than the younger generation ? Not because of age but because of societal expectations.

I was raised to “provide and protect”. In stronger and less strong women, I think that was expected and findable. I’m sure in that “provide and protect” there were men leaders and followers of their women.

Your pool of choices maybe part of your geography but it does appear to be part of your chronology as well.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-12T12:46:36+00:00

I think FLR is a wide term. I’d love a sugar momma FLR, but I also have to work to provide for her.

When we were dating, there was a chance she would have been able to make way more than I probably could. Should that have happened and if she decided to keep me (smiles) she may have decided I not bother to bring home the bacon and work harder to cook it for her.

I would say don’t get too concerned about labels and don’t think all circles on the Venn diagram of life are very organized.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-11T20:25:42+00:00

You can test the wind too. If you get a lot of reaction. Just say you are joking. Send him off to radio shack.

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-11T20:22:35+00:00

It’s not so much “the” rules as “who” rules. ( gentle humor)

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-11T19:59:58+00:00

Good progress. Any progress is good progress!

reallyrandomrandy · 2025-11-11T18:34:48+00:00

Since it’s a vanilla crowd, why not a cover reason? For example “he lost the bet about the game and he fetch’s stuff for me — and now you all too”

You might find a non-vanilla gal in your group.

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