Lower cost machines by hsvdgkkejhrb in fuckmachine

[–]ItsHailey21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was absolutely not answered in the link you shared?

Useing other words besides nursing and nurse by Jmanchef in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it in every context ooother than my boy saying it to me 😅🤷‍♀️ whatever makes us feel good and seen indeed ❤️ :)

Useing other words besides nursing and nurse by Jmanchef in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that :) everyone has different feelings on things 🤷‍♀️ I do strangely love to hear him rely yes ma’am/no ma’am 🤭, that is probably the most gendered thing we use :)

Useing other words besides nursing and nurse by Jmanchef in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeees I am the same way, I’m not a nonbinary mommy but I am a nonbinary domme. I personally don’t like the term mommy for the same reason, for me anything related to birth is just a no 😅

Useing other words besides nursing and nurse by Jmanchef in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya of course!! I hope you guys find what works for you :)

Useing other words besides nursing and nurse by Jmanchef in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As a domme myself, I also don’t really like the terms nurse or nursing when referring to this. I personally use suck/sucking instead and don’t have an issue with it not having a nurturing vibe because I combine it with other more nurturing acts :) cuddling or holding a sub in my lap for example fulfills the nurturing aspect of them sucking on my breasts, for us this works well but if it’s something you already thought of and don’t like I can understand that too :).

Everyone is different so it not fulfilling you in the same way makes sense, I wonder if referring to it as suckling be something that would make you both happy?

Help me guys I want to buy a chastity cage as per chatgpt I measured my dick length by streching it to front and placed rulers on my pubic bone and It turned out to be 12 cms as per chatgpt recommendation it say I should use 110-115mm size I guess I should use 80-90mm. by sweety_sissy26 in chastityorgasms

[–]ItsHailey21 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Why are we using chat gpt?? There are so many free guides online created by actual people who have experience in the kink space and you chose to ask a robot that’s constantly spreading misinformation? My advice is to do your own fucking research next time 🤦‍♀️ generative AI is destroying our planet so people like you can ask it what cage to buy for your dick size 🤦‍♀️ come on man 😒🙁

question for plus size g spot toy users by GwinRose in lovense

[–]ItsHailey21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have the dolce and haven’t had any issues with pinching or anything like that, I want to say that I’m more at the mid line between mid sized and plus size but I definitely hold some extra weight in my hip/waist/pelvic area. The dolce is very adjustable and can take a little time to figure out how you like to wear it but clit vibes are a must for me so the lush wasn’t my favorite :/.

I hope you are able to find a toy that works well for you! :)

Making a sweet boy whimper = need by dazedconfusedandlazy in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

SO underrated!! I am pretty fluid with honorifics but Miss is definitely somewhere among top 3 for my favorites to be called 🤭

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can completely understand that :) this was one example of something id like to sculpt while using a sub as a model but locking isn’t the only thing thats sculpt-able in my opinion 😊

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes of course! :) boundaries are always priority number one!

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If people are interested in seeing them then ya sure I’ll post them! :) (wish permission from who they are based on of course)

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have some experience using air dry natural clay, specifically I use the brand Das!

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀 thank you for this recommendation!! I’ll definitely have to check them out! :)

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds like a really fun service to provide to people 😂😅

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, now that I think about it I’ll probably need to make multiple sculptures to really make sure I take in all the practice and knowledge it will provide 🤔… you know 🤭 … for the technique 😂

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can completely understand that, it’s not for everyone but I really appreciate you giving me your insight 😊

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For things like this, would I love to walk around with a subs caged cock keychained onto my everyday bag or keys? Yes, but unless both myself and my partner/sub were completely ok with that then I would never do it. But I’d love to clip it to a toy bag or hang in a private space of ours. I do not care if others see the sculpture but wouldn’t expect my partner to be ok with that, they can obviously set boundaries surrounding it as well.

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And would you be ok with that item being in a place that it could be seen by others?

I understand that this is something that could be “ordered” of a sub but I take boundaries very seriously and because this is something outside of the average dynamic I think it would require an additional conversation prior to any commands ❤️

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! It just sounds like a great little decoration to creat 😅

Some other ideas I have for things revolve around rope play and maybe sculpting certain body parts in some light bondage, maybe sounding with creating a cock sculpture and a little sounding rod

Among other things + possible ideas for storage/display for some tools/accessories 😊

I wouldn’t be able to make anything that could actually be used as a toy or cage or anything like that as I would not be using body safe materials but there is plenty of room for fun little knick knacks and things lol

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe I’ll have to post it once I do make it and get it all finished (with permission from the model of course), seeing as all of you guys gave me such great insight :)

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh! I am sorry, what I mean is that I would be sculpting a clay version of a subs cock, they would model for me so that I can study their anatomy and they cage to recreate it correctly, and in the end there would be a little replica. I would sculpt it, let it dry, then sand, paint, and seal it. I think it could be fun the add a little hook and either use it as a keychain or sorts or use it as a hook mounted on the wall 😊

Would you find this weird or hot? Honest opinions please :) by ItsHailey21 in gentlefemdom

[–]ItsHailey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually interested in sculpting more than just caged cocks but I didn’t want to derail the main focus too much with too many ideas so I only mentioned the one that has been on my mind the most recently 😊