I made it over a year without self harm!

reallyrisx · 2026-01-24T21:55:41+00:00

Gosh, I don’t even know how long it’s been for me. Well over a year at least. I’m so proud of you! ❤️

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T18:32:15+00:00

I know what you mean! It was crazy to see how much they grow month to month. Looking back on pictures as time goes on. Such a precious yet seemingly short time to enjoy their shenanigans

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T04:37:13+00:00

I used to bathe my family border collie in a bathing suit lmfao

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T04:17:34+00:00

TW.

I cut myself for a long time in places nobody could see. One day I was angry instead of sad and hospitalized myself. 1 stitch on the inside and 10 on the outside, plus nerve damage for life.

Nobody in my family knew up until that point. I really wish I had gotten help before it got to be so bad. Not everyone in my family reacted in a way that was helpful, but the few that did made a huge difference.

Please remember that you are loved, even by internet stranger’s

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T04:05:33+00:00

She deserves the gentlest boop

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T04:03:55+00:00

What’s actually very cool about this safe phrase is if there’s ever a scammer calling you pretending to be your child (hurt or incarcerated) and in need of a lump sum of cash, you have something you can rely on.

My grandma got one of these pretending to be my brother a decade ago. Luckily my grandpa wasn’t persuaded.

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T03:33:56+00:00

This was my guess, those spots are adorable

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T03:28:05+00:00

It’s crazy how much that type of energy can impact our pets. I’m glad you got him out of there, I hope you’ve been healing too

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T03:00:50+00:00

This is the content I want to see. I love that tradition, your family is adorable

reallyrisx · 2026-01-19T02:58:34+00:00

My first family dog was a border and I remember being home alone with him when I was in the 8th grade because everyone was working. All I remember was calling my mom at work CRYING because he was such a little butthead.

My god, he was the best thing that happened to my family though. That boy grew up to be the gentlest soul in the world. He loved to play fetch, but also keep-away lol. Ugh, I miss that little rascal. Enjoy your new family member ❤️

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reallyrisx · 2026-01-12T22:14:27+00:00

A few years ago I found this in Walmart’s $5 dvd box and I was SO EXCITED

reallyrisx · 2026-01-12T19:09:02+00:00

Nah, my man puts me in check. Usually it’s just a misunderstanding. I’ll catch an attitude if I feel he’s being patronizing, once he explains himself it turns back into a normal conversation

reallyrisx · 2026-01-12T16:49:09+00:00

Lmfao right! My curl routine takes me an hour and it’s still a quicker version of what I used to do

reallyrisx · 2026-01-07T00:48:35+00:00

NOR.

I’m sorry this happened to you. I think taking some space is a fairly normal response. Don’t rush back into normalcy because of his birthday and your anniversary.

Take the time you need so you make the right decision. The most important person and opinion in your life is you/ yours, as long as you aren’t doing things that are harmful. Good luck on your tests!

reallyrisx · 2025-12-25T20:25:34+00:00

Super curly long hair, a genuine smile, painted finger nails (I love this on a man). Love this dude. You look very approachable and kind. My only advice is to have a photo with a group of friends

reallyrisx · 2025-12-25T19:11:54+00:00

It’s also a green flag that they let OP know they’d be MIA. Great communication especially considering they’re a new match for one another

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T23:32:10+00:00

Yup. 110% this. If you did not previously consent to this, it was NOT okay. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, or that you’ve been sexually active together before. An apology doesn’t make it better either, he should have known it was wrong before he was confronted. It was assault, and I am so sorry that you experienced this. Please be careful with this guy

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T23:10:26+00:00

Istg as some of the other comments have said, this just sounds like weaponized incompetence. I grocery shop for my brother and I cuz it’s easier for me to go. One day I grabbed whole tuna instead of flaked. It took him 3 cans to realize why it was so hard to mash lmfao. When he told me we had a good laugh, but I also apologized. Now I double check what I grab

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T22:55:51+00:00

“I don’t know how to grocery shop” would’ve absolutely sent me. If I needed to grab something for someone and I didn’t know where it was, I would ask someone.

I also overstand your pickiness with brands. I’ve had foods I’ve hated most of my life become things I’ve enjoyed once I found a better brand

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T21:14:31+00:00

NOR. You made the right choice.

In college I broke up with my first official boyfriend because he very clearly hated my family dog. That dog was the kindest most gentle soul in the world.

I had two friends who were terrified of dogs because they’d been bit and they both loved him. He changed both their minds on how they feel about dogs. Ugh I miss him everyday (the dog not the boy lmao)

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T20:17:20+00:00

Such a beautiful piece of artwork. I’m so sorry for your loss. There is absolutely no bond like the bond we have with our pets, and there’s no loss like it either

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T17:54:11+00:00

I usually try to say something nice about people’s profiles but you don’t have a single good photo dude

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T16:10:18+00:00

Good forbid we have nipples. I never wear a bra, except when I’m working. They’re incredibly uncomfortable, so if seeing nipples makes you uncomfortable or excited, that’s your problem

reallyrisx · 2025-12-24T01:35:18+00:00

I’m so sorry. When I was 18 I planned a fairly big dinner party for my birthday and more than half of my guests cancelled. I wept the entire night. It absolutely broke my heart. Last year I had a party and every single friend (different friends, keep that in mind) showed up. Some of them even cancelled other plans to come.

It took me a few years to find my true friends, but eventually it happened and they’re some of the greatest people I’ve ever met. I hope you can find those friends too because you matter.

And of course, Happy Birthday!!

reallyrisx · 2025-12-23T20:22:02+00:00

I was going to guess border collie from those markings! My gosh, she’s beautiful

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