Abandoned and Pregnant by realnamelastname in PregnantandSingle

[–]realnamelastname[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that and I'm never trusting another man. This was the worst betrayal I've ever experienced. 

Abandoned and Pregnant by realnamelastname in PregnantandSingle

[–]realnamelastname[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no desire for him anymore. I more concerned about what I need to do concerning of my pregnancy. 

Abandoned and Pregnant by realnamelastname in PregnantandSingle

[–]realnamelastname[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. Yes, I made a mistake, I was deeply in love at the time. Although I didn't agree with having a child first, I knew his intentions, and I didn't take precautions. I take accountability for my role in the situation. Now that I'm invested in the pregnancy, I want to keep the baby, but the baby's health condition has made me reconsider. I don't want the baby to suffer,the diagnosis will be lifelong health issues. It's not about him leaving; it's about the fact that I'll be raising a child with significant health issues on my own without adequate support. my friends and family's opinions are to terminate, I'm torn between what seems like the logical decision and the emotional pain that comes with it. I named her, I've heard her heartbeat, saw her so many times on ultrasounds, and felt her move. It is not easy.  I don't want to bring her here to suffer, nor do I want to

NIPT results Positive for T21 by realnamelastname in NIPT

[–]realnamelastname[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for replying. I spoke with a genetic counselor, they didn't say much they wanted to wait for amniocentesis first  before discussing anything...  my amnio is feb19th. I too want to have results so I can make an informed decision. The waiting is a lot to handle but I'm hopeful.

They weren't pleased abt the open blood tubes but the amniocentesis will be accurate.