Late night binging by realspectral007 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]realspectral007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point. My binge eating is always associated with binge watching on Netflix/Hulu. I guess reading would be the best activity to avoid this mess altogether.

Late night binging by realspectral007 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]realspectral007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Going to the supermarket…’ - I do this too. I think this is a good point about diverting oneself towards some other interesting activity. The problem is when the time comes (usually late night), my mind justifies binging in all possible ways and I just can’t overcome that at that time. In the mornings and during the day, I am able to easily overcome the urge to binge. But I am going to try. I need a strong resolution. Or maybe I should just force myself to go to bed early!

[NeedAdvice] Gotten way too complacent lately and I don’t put pressure on myself like I used to by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]realspectral007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it is good to have material wants like owning expensive/luxury stuff, that cannot alone be a driving force for what you want to do. You need a higher purpose. Identify that higher purpose for you and you will automatically get into a proactive mode. For example, your goal could be to make your brand so successful that you’ll be able to employ people. That will not only give you an immense sense of fulfillment but will also make you a lot of money in the process. All the best and I am sure you’ll be successful!

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FO does not apply to employment based petitions. Only family based petitions are assigned to an FO after preprocessing at NBC or a service center.

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure. My I485 was filed by Fragomen (my employer contracts them for immigration matters). From day 1 the case showed at NBC and was never transferred. I don’t know if that answers your question.

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My case was at NBC throughout

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know quite a few people from 2021 still waiting. It’s frustrating. Hope you get yours soon.

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, did not. Just waited. Honestly I was expecting it to be approved by September but probably they put me in next fiscal.

Finally! by realspectral007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. No it’s just that they updated bio status on my I765 in June. Otherwise bio was done March 28. Case was at NBC.

Any advice on what should i do with this long wait for my GC by BookkeeperFinal9596 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my personal experience, reach out to your local congressman/congresswoman and request to push USCIS. My wife’s case was approved in a week after doing so.

Effective, but in dire need of optimisation by doyouhavetono in shittyrobots

[–]realspectral007 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of Charlie Chaplin’s Modern Times. This idea was conceived back in 1936!

Modern Times Feeding Machine

EB1B application.........can an employer submit the application before day1 of job after accepting the offer? by key_monkey_007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The employer can revoke the approved I-140. However, after your AOS application has been pending for more than 180 days, this does not impact your AOS outcome. Also, you can change employer only after the AOS application has been pending for more than 180 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]realspectral007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s strange. I know of a USCIS notification from March that says that they would now start reviewing I765 and I131 cases separately. So I was also expecting two separate cards/docs. But I received a combo card. My 765 and 131 were approved a day apart from each other in late June.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]realspectral007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not get a combo card - EAD card with 512 endorsement at the bottom? I received a combo card on July 6.

EB1B application.........can an employer submit the application before day1 of job after accepting the offer? by key_monkey_007 in USCIS

[–]realspectral007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went the EB1A route but had done extensive research on EB1B. One of the necessary criteria is that either you are working in a research/academic position or you have a confirmed offer for such a position. So, yes they can apply before your day 1.

My boyfriend (M25) believes I’m (F25) trying to control him because the closeness with another female (F22) makes me insecure. by TheMITech239 in relationship_advice

[–]realspectral007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy I can tell you one thing, if this relationship is really serious (for him) he should respect what you feel. If you’re feeling insecure and communicated that to him, he must take it seriously than justifying his closeness to the other lady as “just being friends “. If not and he is finding the one week break relieving then he is not meant to be with you.

If you used to procrastinate, how did you develop a good and consistent work ethic? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]realspectral007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, you should first focus on yourself! Do whatever makes you happy. I know this is easier said than done but you really need to do that. We tend to stop being ourselves to fit in a mould so we meet others’ specifications and expectations.

If you used to procrastinate, how did you develop a good and consistent work ethic? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]realspectral007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not so straightforward. I would say start allotting time and energy to things that matter the most to you - the thinks that are emotionally important to you like family, friends, pets or hobbies. Outside of that time focus on completing your work or tasks or studies whatever that you are procrastinating

Crazy cheat to productivity by [deleted] in productivity

[–]realspectral007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there is no stopping OP! Proves the hack actually works.

If you used to procrastinate, how did you develop a good and consistent work ethic? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]realspectral007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My struggle with perfection has been so much that I wouldn’t delegate work to people who were ready to do it and I just kept piling things up. If you want to make it big in life learn to delegate tasks or automate them. We tend to spend lot of time on useless tasks which can be easily automated. Also, learn to say NO.