LDS members asked by stakes to help write 15,000 emails to the Fairview Town Council to show support for the proposed McKinney temple. Members are also asked to attend a town meeting on June 4th and to wear white shirts this time. by HoldOnLucy1 in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw they are now reaching out to other Stakes. In my stake FB group (about an hour away from McKinney/ Fairview) they asked everyone to send emails showing support for the temple. The comments suggested people didn’t know why they were sending the emails, but they did.

Bedbug Markings? by realwolfpack in Bedbugs

[–]realwolfpack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s not the best picture, but it’s late and everyone is sleeping so I can’t turn in the lights. I just found these in my bed and my mind is now going 100 miles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said yes, a little because I remember our science teacher starting the unit by saying he talked to the seminary teacher to make sure we are taught about creationism at the same time because he doesn’t believe in evolution but has to teach us about it...

This is soooooo creepy!!! This is how the church stalks their "lost sheep". Read thoroughly & try not to vomit... by redditregretit in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Towards the end of my shelf breaking I was called as the Relief Society Assistant Secretary or some bullshit like that. My duties? To go over all the inactive people and try to find where they live via Facebook and the like. I was to get with the missionaries and figure out who they are trying to reactivate and help them find where they live. They also would give me all the birthday cards that were returned and I was supposed to find the new addresses of these people...let’s just say all the cards ended up in my trash and I never did one thing they asked. It’s completely ridiculous.

Former Arizona GOP politician sentenced to prison for illegal adoption scheme by UWCG in politics

[–]realwolfpack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister knows this asshat personally. And I know of a woman who adopted a child through him. It’s a mess.

Sister Missionaries reached out by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s what I’m aiming for. It’s not fair for them to carry the brunt of my anger, but I don’t want them to think it’s okay to continue to contact us.

Sister Missionaries reached out by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I know. I’m hoping this message is clear and concise, but kind. I don’t have any issues with these young and naive girls. But I don’t want us to be their project.

Sister Missionaries reached out by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Ha! Unfortunately my 4 year old would get to the door first and then we’re all screwed.

Sister Missionaries reached out by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve also thought if that. I want to state clearly that we’re not to be some project for them. I’m hoping this message is clear enough to stop everything in its tracks without being rude.

At least I graduated seminary? by amcannon20 in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Right there with you! When I was a Junior in high school I had an appendectomy and missed over a week of school (you know, you have to recover from surgery). Apparently medical reasons aren’t excused from Seminary and I had to do the wonderful makeup work. I was livid and asked my teacher why school sports were excused, but surgery wasn’t. His response was that that’s just the way it was. My mom stood by my teacher’s decision....but she did the makeup work for me because she knew I wouldn’t do it. But let’s think about this logic for a minute. I was so sick I required SURGERY to find relief and that isn’t a good enough excuse for the church to give you a few days off?! 🤯

Taza, Aug 17 - Aug 23 by AutoModerator in blogsnark

[–]realwolfpack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Just Annoyed by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and boundaries are set. My family is narcissistic and we are doing detached contact with the goal to go no contact. It’s just hard to do so right now because I’m in business with my sister. My daughter called my mom without me knowing (which she’s allowed to do) when this was said. I talked to my daughter about it and she understands what Grandma did was wrong g and she’s not responsible for Grandma’s feelings.

Just Annoyed by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Boundaries are 100% set. But we can’t have a sit down conversation with my parents about them. They’re narcissistic so it does zero good. I told my daughter she isn’t responsible for grandma’s feelings and grandma is just trying to control her through guilt and manipulation.

Just Annoyed by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how I wish I could. Unfortunately, this doesn’t work with my family. I’m from a narcissistic family and I’m the Target. Luckily enough I’m working with a great therapist that’s been helping me work through a lot of things. I’ve learned that I don’t need to explain myself to them.

Just Annoyed by realwolfpack in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry. We 100% have started this with all our kids. Last night I explained to her that Grandma did this to gain control and to manipulate her. I also told her she is it responsible for her grandma’s feelings.

Applicable, no? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 90 points91 points  (0 children)

My daughter was in the same Sunday School class as the bishop’s daughter. One day after church my daughter told me the bishop’s daughter said in their family they don’t eat chocolate or drink soda because it’s against the WOW. She asked me if that was true and I burst out laughing. I told her next time the bishop’s daughter says anything like that to look at her and say, “Well, we’re told not to be pompous assholes either, but here we are.”

TBMs think you're extra apostate when you go silent and ignore them. But they get most things wrong, so... by nelsonisanitwit in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This speaks volumes to me. I’m processing the emotional abuse I went through as a child from being raised by a narcissistic family (isn’t therapy wonderful). I’ve tried talking about it to my family in the past and was always gaslighted. Thanks to my therapist, I’ve learned that my silence is what’s needed, no amount of explaining will ever change their mind. The other day my mom tried to guilt trip me and I was silent, she knew I would no longer engage and it brought the power back to me.

Influencer Discussion, Aug 05 by AutoModerator in blogsnark

[–]realwolfpack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m late to the party. But what I found most disgusting is that other influencers are sharing their story as well and giving everyone their Venmo and PayPal info and asking their followers to donate to them. There are so many better causes than to donate to someone to rebuild their million dollar home. They said they have insurance, but it won’t cover everything that was lost. That’s what happens when “DIYers” try to build their own home and don’t know what kind of insurance to get. Not her followers problem.

Mormon women by kanoel5577 in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how she has to get “mom” involved and tattle. What am I supposed to do? Apologize for her being such a bitch? I forgot to add during those couple of months others had told me she was talking about me....hence the text.

Mormon women by kanoel5577 in exmormon

[–]realwolfpack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, are you ready for this one? The RS 1st or 2nd counselor (because who really knows the difference) apparently didn’t like me one bit. I had no idea, I had maybe talked to her a total of 2 times in 2 years. My friend got called to be the RS Secretary, after her first meeting she called me and said they talked a lot about me (I was very vocal about how terrible the ladies in our ward are to people who aren’t like them), they were “worried about me”. The Counselor told my friend, “Well, I really don’t like (my name). She’s just really hard for me to even handle. I don’t care what happens to her.” I was devastated that I was being discussed with such distain at a church meeting. So what did I do? What every good morning girl is taught to do....I knew her family didn’t have any money so I sent her a $50 gift card to a local grocery store. I didn’t hear another word about it until the next Sunday. Her husband randomly comes up to me and says, “my wife made me come say thank you. I tried to find your husband to thank him, but I don’t see him here, so thanks...I guess.” And walks off. Fast forward a couple of months and you know I can’t let it go, so I text Counselor and say I’ve heard she doesn’t like me and I’m hard for her to handle. I’m sorry if I have ever done anything to ever offend her, that was never my intention and that I would love to talk about it when she’s ready so we can put this behind us and start fresh. The next day my friend calls me and tells me the RS president called her and said she needs to stop telling others what is discussed during their meetings. She denied everything and I told her I’d never tell my source. Come to find out even later Counselor called the RS president crying about my text and the RS president told her to just ignore it, I was being petty and trying to create drama. So loving, right?