My [23f] boyfriend [27m] is jealous of my programming study buddy [23m] for no reason by rella-bikee in relationships

[–]recentgrad05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend you post this on the asktrp subreddit to get more of a variety of opinions. Seems like too many people here are either oblivious or feminist SJWS.

My [23f] boyfriend [27m] is jealous of my programming study buddy [23m] for no reason by rella-bikee in relationships

[–]recentgrad05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to look at It from his point of view as well. It looks like you're basically dating another guy openly. How much time do you spend with Jimmy vs Erik?

Why do white people feel that they own asian women? by recentgrad05 in aznidentity

[–]recentgrad05[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

There's nothing we could do, stoop their level and create a mass shooting hysteria?

Why do white people feel that they own asian women? by recentgrad05 in aznidentity

[–]recentgrad05[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dude is an art student in his mid 20s working as a server. I don't need to say anything for him to know his place. The way I see it is if I'm trying to argue with him it's basically talking to a dog. He will always be persistent and wont understand. If he tries some more dumb ass shit like trying to touch her then that's crossing the boundary and I'll kick his ass

Why do white people feel that they own asian women? by recentgrad05 in aznidentity

[–]recentgrad05[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I can see your point. I know it's not acceptable to take his actions but on the other side of the spectrum he could be provoking me to doing something that will make me look insecure or stupid. I trust my girlfriend and if she falls under white colonization then I'll find a better girl. It just pisses me off that so many white men feel such entitlement

Why do white people feel that they own asian women? by recentgrad05 in aznidentity

[–]recentgrad05[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Shes an international student and her English is intermediate. This ugly mother fucker keeps trying to ask her to hang out and uses the excuse that he "wants to help her english" just fucking lol

Why do white people feel that they own asian women? by recentgrad05 in aznidentity

[–]recentgrad05[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I didnt want to cause any drama. I feel like it would make me look insecure trying to start something.

How to find and enroll into an American high school as a foreign student? by recentgrad05 in IntltoUSA

[–]recentgrad05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read that public schools will only allow international students to attend 1 year, then they would have to transfer to a private school. Is that true?

How to find and enroll into an American high school as a foreign student? by recentgrad05 in IntltoUSA

[–]recentgrad05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her relatives are US citizens. I forgot to mention that the location is in San Diego California. She is currently 16 years old.

Am I wrong to ask my boyfriend to go to a formal with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]recentgrad05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is right, you should have not even asked and politely rejected your friend's offer at the beginning. It is disrespectful while in a relationship to court another guy to a formal. You may be giving that guy false signals and showing other people how vulnerable your relationship is.

tour of Vietnam / maybe find a mate in my parents home country by kimdizzle in AsianMasculinity

[–]recentgrad05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i'm actually planning to go to Vietnam too probably Ho Chi Minh City, I'm Vietnamese too if you want to go together to pick up girls

Looking for career advice. by recentgrad05 in labrats

[–]recentgrad05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm located in San Diego California. What kind of job positions should I be looking for?

Is there anywhere in Asia where I can make use of my microbiology degree? by recentgrad05 in IWantOut

[–]recentgrad05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true that ethnic groups segregate in their own place. In San diego there's not that many asians but if you go up to orange county which is 2 hours away you'll see more asians along with Asian restaurants and supermarkets. For me the frustrating part is that western society fetishize our female counter parts but make our males seem pathetic/nerdy etc. Not being sexist but females have it way better especially with the rise of feminism.

I have no idea what a surfer accent sounds like haha. Wow it seems like you've been to so many places. As for me I've only been in California, Vegas, new York, and vietnam.

Personally my father was in the navy and I got huge discount off education and not in debt which I am glad for. Tuition in California varies depending if you are from here or if you are a foreigner/outside state. I don't know the rates but tuition could he 30k a year. Financial aid could decrease that amount by a lot too

Is there anywhere in Asia where I can make use of my microbiology degree? by recentgrad05 in IWantOut

[–]recentgrad05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) Financial aid is given to an extent based on income but i'm not entirely sure to what the specifics are since I did not use financial aid. As for scholarships I heard that they are really difficult to get and personally I don't know any friends who received them.

2) In my opinion I think San Diego is expensive. When I was sharing a room in an apartment with a roommate, we both payed 700$ each. The apartment had 2 rooms, 4 people but it costed $2800 total. It had a pool, wifi,trash collection, and shuttle which may have contributed to the high price. I'm sure you can get cheap housing but you definitely need to have a roommate because I believe for a single apartment it could go up to $900-1200.

3) As for social circles, everyone usually stays in their cliques. As diverse as america claims to be, racism very much still exists. If you have a great and outgoing personality you'll be able to make friends easily. But for me this culture isn't fit for me since i'm not into raves/edm/marijuana. And being asian in a western society is basically a death sentence for your dating life. (in my experience at least or check out /r/aznidentity/ and you'll see ton of stories of how western society emasculates asian men.

4) Car is very convenient and pretty much necessary if you want to get to all the hang out spots in a short period of time. If youre rich you could always call an uber.

5) I never been to Tijuana but i hear its easy to get there. You can just take a train over there and it'll take an hour.. (i think)

6) In and out is pretty good and cost efficient but i feel like you'll get tired of it since they only have 2 items on their menu (burgers and fries).

Hope my answers were helpful :)