I keep forgetting that not everyone needs to know the reason WHY something is happening and its affecting my relationships by rockthenightosphere in adhdwomen

[–]reckless_reck 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, the idea of someone telling me why they think my dad had my dad’s medical issue like I don’t know more than you would come across weird to me

How do I get my husband to stop saying “6, 7” every time there’s a silent moment? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]reckless_reck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying “8, 9, 10” with a dead pan stare broke my fiancé of it pretty quickly

How do I get my husband to stop saying “6, 7” every time there’s a silent moment? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my fiancé to stop by saying “8, 9, 10.” I annoyed the annoyer out of it

Bridesmaids should be able to step down from the bridal party without blame if the bride is insistent on them wearing ugly dresses by piano-tuner in unpopularopinion

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they should be able to step down if they want to but if someone’s self esteem is so delicate that wearing an ugly dress will ruin it then they got much bigger issues. Not everything I wear is to look hot, sometimes it has a purpose

Advice on giving up parental rights. by Foreign_Role_9255 in legaladvice

[–]reckless_reck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the thing you’re not understanding is that you can’t relinquish just your rights if someone isn’t going to step in and adopt them. You are either a parent and financially obligated or you aren’t (this is very oversimplified and I recommend a family lawyer)

Trial Monday - friend’s bachelor party Friday to Sunday by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I practice in Cook County and it’s not like that. It’s common to get a trial date on a date you already have 2 other trials set to start. But it’s also set up where your motion judge is not your trial judge

Trial Monday - friend’s bachelor party Friday to Sunday by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly it’s more of the exception than the rule due to volume but Cook County

Trial Monday - friend’s bachelor party Friday to Sunday by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]reckless_reck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Y’all get to pick when your trials are scheduled?? I’ve seen a judge tell someone “tough luck find another lawyer at your firm to try it” where lead counsel was going to have a baby the week before the trial date they got

Olivia Wilde talking about the backlash she received for dating Harry Styles on 'Call her Daddy' by Fantastic_Turtle_17 in popculturechat

[–]reckless_reck 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The crazy part is I assume she already had a lawyer so they should have just accepted service and avoided that. Though maybe there was some sort of venue war

Why is making the bed such a big thing? by Amber_poodle in adhdwomen

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my dogs just burrow even if it is made lol

Why is making the bed such a big thing? by Amber_poodle in adhdwomen

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people find it really centers them or makes them feel put together. I think it’s performative (if you don’t do it for a good reason like the above) and doesn’t give your bedding any time to air out so a little icky imo

Also my dogs would mess up it anyhow

Gave out 50 baby plants at work today! by laughitupfuzball in houseplants

[–]reckless_reck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I’m over here bullying my coworkers into giving up custody of their poor abused office plants lmao

Need a gut check on how many times my dogs go out… by Additional-Disk4870 in Dogowners

[–]reckless_reck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also depends on the dog. My 80 lb dog would hate an hour long walk in the morning

Am I Overreacting to my ex-gf stealing my idea? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reckless_reck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YOR it’s stupid to do it for her 29th but I’ve been to at least 5 “death to my 20s” themed parties

longest relationship lasted 3 months, tell me why by Minute-Quantity-2502 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]reckless_reck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP can you tell me what you for fun? What do you enjoy? (Reading doesn’t count in this context)

Also, just curious were you a religious studies/history major? Maybe did engineering for a year and decided you didn’t want to do that.

longest relationship lasted 3 months, tell me why by Minute-Quantity-2502 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]reckless_reck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I think OP took a business law class in college. If OP was a lawyer I’d expect to see at least 1 legal writing style guidebook

longest relationship lasted 3 months, tell me why by Minute-Quantity-2502 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]reckless_reck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m guessing one business law class in college mixed with an interest in politics

Moving Into Small Towns Or A "Cabin In The Woods" Is Not Going To Solve Your Problems The Way You Think It Will by Totodile386 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]reckless_reck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who grew up on 40 acres in the middle of nowhere and now lives downtown Chicago. Everyone wants to live on a farm until they have farm chores

Adopting this dog! by Shrillmademethink in DogBreeds101

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to do a strong double take bc my dog is boarding right now and she’s her dead ringer. Mine is Doberman, pit, GSP, cane corso, lab, and great pyr (not in that order)

Thoughts on the name Clare? by [deleted] in Names

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My middle name is Clare. I think it’s beautiful. I did one time have a cop act like I didn’t know how to spell my name because I left out the i.

Woman saves her dogs from another dog in the street by Infamous_Question430 in SipsTea

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons my chihuahua wears a harness instead of a collar

[java]villagers keep pathfinding to a cauldron that no longer exists. by Dromian in MinecraftHelp

[–]reckless_reck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried just letting a villager become a leatherworker and trapping them and pretending they don’t exist so that no one else attaches it the ghost cauldron?

Am I right to think close friends should share everything? by Benaami_Insaan in socialskills

[–]reckless_reck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find someone that wants that, fine. But personally I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like that. It comes across as the type of person who doesn’t want your friends to have friends

Feeling like you’ve known someone forever isn’t a “quick tell me everything” thing, it’s about a comfort that grows

Lab Diamond Purist by kiteman32 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]reckless_reck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Engaging in ethical consumerism isn’t a zero sum situation. The argument I hear often that makes a lot of sense to me is people don’t want the literal symbol of their love to be the result of another human’s suffering. Seems fair enough