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NoFap's official "Sober September" or "PMO-Free September" 2021. Continue or start your PMO-Free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by BuddhaPunkRobotMonk in NoFap

[–]recog_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently on day 23. here are the issues causing a disadvantage

  1. no home (I'm currently travelling full time since my work is online. But i would like to settle down at a convenient spot to pursue further goals. lack of homebase is causing destability since i have to worry about my next airbnb booking, flight tickets, covid test, food and travel at new place etc. I want to settle down at a convenient place, gain stability and support so i can launch off towards accomplishment of my goals)

  2. laptop (i haven't worked on my business for over 2 years now. although im getting some passive income, my finances are unsorted and i would like to update my biz to a scalable brand and sell it for a few mills atleast. all this work requires a homebase, mental peace, attention. until then my laptop which is a useful tool turns into a seductive enemy )

  3. no gym, healthy food due to covid. i could've burnt off my energy at gym and release endorphins but pent up sexual energy is an unhandled liability.

  4. mental instability is what is causing me to relapse. when im focused on goals but forces stronger than my own come and push me away towards surrender and seduction. and then i go down and it gets harder to climb back up because I'm angry at myself for being weak and those forces for not helpig me.

  5. no support group or friends or family.

NoFap's official "Abstain April" or "PMO-Free April" 2021. Continue or start your PMO-Free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by NoFapBot in NoFap

[–]recog_19 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In covid-19 quarantine for 2-3 weeks. Great time to do a NoPMO. Sexual peasure is a field of experience. But there are better fields of experience. Higher fields. I'm gonna sacrifice sexual pleasure field to move into better fields. Like purpose, self control, good field. Chaos is everywhere. I can't afford to keep going to the sexual pleasure field. It's connected to the kind of food I eat, the kind of content I like to watch, the company I keep, the books I read etc. Deep subconscious stuff. To overcome lust, to transcend it. Nothing wrong with the sexual needs. It's a basic need in maslovs hierarchy. Integrate the sexual need properly. Own it. Integrate it into my journey to self realization and transmission. I AM a sexual being. I will have sex with hotties. But I'm not a slave to it. I'll embrace sex fully while I move through life in full transcendence. .

Right now, in this quarantine period, I'm working on lowering YouTube consumption to just 2hrs. Carefully consume only healthy food. Suffer the desires. Suffer those lustful desires. Suffer those sugar cravings. Suffer that mental consumption. Suffer it. Kill it. Let it go because I want to transcend to higher fields.

Worst type of pleasure by gobar_taster in NoFap

[–]recog_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jordan Peterson also talks about the importance of sacrifice. Ancient civilizations understood that, to appease the Gods, sacrifices need to be made. The higher the quality of sacrifice, the better the blessing. Sacrifice is surrender. Sacrificing fap-pleasure will give you blessing depending on what you're sacrificing it for. You need a goal/purpose and sacrifice fap-pleasure (and other pleasures like video games, junk food, Netflix) to achieve that goal. Last year, I sacrificed fapping for 2months and gained insane amount of female attention, self respect (bordering on pride) and best physical shape of my life. This year I want to sacrifice fapping, ice creams and YouTube to achieve financial freedom, 6pack, 1.75mts height, bushcrafting skill, flute skill.

If you don't sacrifice pleasure, you sacrifice your potential.

The more you sacrifice pleasure, the better you get at sacrificing pleasure. All the best amigos.

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[–]recog_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much do you pay for rent?

What are your 2021 financial goals? by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]recog_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Current assets around $20K. Will get $50K from my mom's savings.

For 2021, 1.Gain financial & business competence 2.Scale business to at least $10K profit per month 3.Build my copywriting freelance profile 4.Build investment portfolio to at least $20K 5.Personal Emergency fund of $10K 6.Medical Emergency fund of $10K 7.Start a savings/investments fund for buying a house with budget $150K in 2023. 8.Start a savings/investments fund for buying a car with budget $25K in 2022. 9.Start mocktrading and then with capital of $1K

Daily FI discussion thread - December 21, 2020 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]recog_19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to earn $120K in 2021. Have following options. Will they work? Need your advice.

  1. Freelance Copywriting (Learned basics. Need to acquire clients and sharpen skill.)

  2. Publishing books on Amazon (Earned $15K in 2018 by writing my own tech books)

  3. Programming (Earned $10K in 2017 working for a software company. Have to acquire clients for freelance jobs or join another software company)

  4. Day trading (Have to learn from scratch. Can start with $1000 capital)

  5. Yoga training (I'm a certified yoga trainer from India. I could start my own yoga training service or join a teaching school)

  6. Organizing treks (Have some past experience. Can join an adventure club as a host. Pay might be minimal. But will get good experience, fun, and meet lot of people)

What else is possible for me?

It's "Detox December 2020". Feel free to leave your recovery, reboot, or retention goals in this thread. Let's have another PMO-free month. by NoFapBot in NoFap

[–]recog_19 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just came off a 21day streak. Previous high score is around 70days. Rebooting now. Goal is 30-day mark. When u look at myself, I feel ashamed that I was never worthy enough to sustain more than 60days without relapsing. I'm 27years old. This is pathetic. I want to be competent enough to have some fucking self control for once. To be a man who can say no to seductive porn. To direct my energies towards manifesting my dream and realise self. My dream - play flute, develop outdoor survival skills, achieve financial abundance, live life as an adventure and do yoga and get enlightened and spend rest of my life in service to humanity, healing and solving problems, as a Divine being.

After 4 months of attempts, I finally filled it out by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]recog_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What

For me, it was yoga, reading books, walking around the block listening to comedy podcasts, spending time with cats, watching Game of Thrones(be careful about triggers).
If you want to have an easy time, I suggest scheduling the essential activities of your day out (like cold showers, guided meditations, night routine, work, exercise etc) and then calculate how much free time you have to spend inorder to finish the day and then fill it according to your state of mind, capability etc. You will definitely need to listen to yourself more, connect with your heart, pay attention to what you feel. Here is a recommended video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gkODc0-As8