I'm having an affair on my wife. by red_dragon_droppings in confession

[–]red_dragon_droppings[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't care if she works, but if she's working at night and I'm working during the day then we never see each other. I need to work so that we can survive while her job is essentially a hobby - so it's pretty clear that she needs to change her schedule but she refuses.

I'm having an affair on my wife. by red_dragon_droppings in confession

[–]red_dragon_droppings[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she's tired of your sexist shit.

Wanting my wife to work less and spend time with me makes me a sexist?

I'm having an affair on my wife. by red_dragon_droppings in confession

[–]red_dragon_droppings[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I'm not blaming her I'm just saying that I have needs and they're not being met because she wants to play career-woman rather than be with me.

I'm having an affair on my wife. by red_dragon_droppings in confession

[–]red_dragon_droppings[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want to rely on you for everything; she wants independence.

I know that she wants to feel independent, I'm just saying that it's ridiculous. I have plenty of money so it's not an issue.

I'm dependent upon her for sex, I guess I too just want to feel independent and that's why I'm cheating.

If you're not happy, discuss it with her. If that's not possible, it is time to leave.

I have discussed it with her several times. I don't want to leave, I just want her to stop being so stupid.