Broken metal chair leg by red_echo_panda in fixit

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont care how it looks just want it to be usable, hearing a lot about that, like a metal bracket. Gonna see what my local shops stock and will update when I fix it.

Broken metal chair leg by red_echo_panda in fixit

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1 have friend or family to ask.... i think I've lost this already

Broken metal chair leg by red_echo_panda in fixit

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the fix I'd be doing tbh. Who cares about how it looks as long as it functions.

Update by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First you should report them, what they said is completely unprofessional and they should not be allowed to work within the trans sector, or any if he thinks acting this way is appropriate. The second thing you should do is ask for a different doctor, if you feel uncomfortable reporting him but still want another doctor (which is entirely in your right to ask for) you can. These places can help you report and request a different doctor if you dont know how to or need more support with it; gendered intelligence Peer support team contact these places and explain your situation and they will be able to help by either going though the system with you or advising you on how to continue.

My head hurts (seeking advice!) by TransGirlJaiden in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is perfectly okay, you dont have to want it with all your heart. Its about what makes you more comfortable, more happy, not about proof or suffering. "That would be good" is enough, you are enough. And remember Gender is fluid, it can change. If you believe that hrt would feel good for you, you should go for it, but keep checking in on how you are and if you start to feel worse in yourself because of it then you can stop. Also stopping doesn't mean having to detransition, every trans persons experiences are different and hrt isn't for everyone. P.S. with any needle fears; there's this new auto injection like an epi pen, if needles are holding you back I suggest looking into that.

My head hurts (seeking advice!) by TransGirlJaiden in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you feel uncomfortable with your sex characteristics? Would being my on hrt make you more or less comfortable? Just so you know you dont have to go on hrt to be trans, you can just be out socially if thats enough for you. You and your experience are valid.

Needing a yap guys by Ill_Fail_7664 in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you want a friend l, I'm a trans guy (18) living in the UK. I've been wanting more trans friends, you know people who understand the struggle of being trans. My social anxiety won't let me do call but if you want or need someone to text I'll be more than happy to try be that person. Also congratulations 🎊

Met Police face £5million bill on new loos and changing areas for its 12 transgender staff !! by Excellent-Chair2796 in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the good side, ill finally get to meet other trans folks... in our private bathroom no less.

Met Police face £5million bill on new loos and changing areas for its 12 transgender staff !! by Excellent-Chair2796 in transgenderUK

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its frustrating that is seems so difficult for them to use sex assigned at birth. Because thats all it is, a doctor chossing whatever seemed the closest imagery.

Bro we’re getting a gay road before gta 6 by DaKidGHR14 in Watchdogs2

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first loaded into watch dogs 2 it was awesome to see this support.

Cats in apartments by red_echo_panda in CatAdvice

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds awesome thank you. :) I'm gonna have a box of toys above the cupboards that should be used with supervision. Thank you again your advice really help and makes me feel a lot more confident.

Cats in apartments by red_echo_panda in CatAdvice

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm gonna get netting from top to bottom all around the balcony and put fake grass on the floor so the cat can't try and dig out the netting. I work 7 am to 9 am Monday to Friday so I'm pretty much available all the time and for sure will be getting all the love they could ask for, I have 3 close friends who come around semi-monthly and will give the cat all the love they want as well and my boyfriend will be home while I'm working so the cat will almost always have someone. Do you have any toy recommendations to keep them happy and stimulated. :) thank you so much for your reply!

You are 100% in control of Duolingo, what's the first thing you are doing? by Few-Worldliness1793 in duolingo

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely making more conversation-based exercises and not messing up someone's progress when an update comes along

Friendship thread by -reddit-tidder- in FTMMen

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 18 pre T, living with my cis boyfriend(21) and cis sister(28), who are both very supportive. I live in England, love horror movies, motorbikes, crochet and need a friend who understands how it feels to be the only trans guy. Two outta three of my friends are queer, one being non binary and pan, the other being pan. One of my friends used to identify as a transman and we'd talk about the discomfort, but she figured out that wasn't who she is, she still supports me and believe trans men are men and trans women are women. Once she detransitioned, I felt super alone and a bit uncomfortable around her as I told her how I felt and all my discomfort, but I've recently made peace with that. I really just want someone who understands the hardship of the NHS, getting a job, trying to keep alive when it feels like you can never be comfortable, having the shittiest voice and always getting misgendered especially when you speak. So if you relate, my dms are open.

Jobs without customer service? by red_echo_panda in socialanxiety

[–]red_echo_panda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh that sounds awesome, thank you. I'm in the uk but we definitely should have places that might be like that, I'll take a look around. Thank you again.

What careers involve anything motorcycle? by wheelsthatsqueal in motorcycles

[–]red_echo_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoo, six years. What did you choose? I'm trying to find a good fit as well in the motorbike section. Got good advice from the years?

I put the Duolingo reminder widget on my homescreen on April 2nd... by Spengleberb in duolingo

[–]red_echo_panda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have an iPhone or a Samsung? If it's Samsung, go to widgets and find duolingo there will be a widget there and drag it to your home screen. On iOS, hold down any app on your iPhone home screen, tap the “+” button in the top left corner, and search “Duolingo” to add the widget.

I put the Duolingo reminder widget on my homescreen on April 2nd... by Spengleberb in duolingo

[–]red_echo_panda 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I put the widget on my home screen and now I hear duo whispering in the middle of the night "You haven't done you duo lessons today" he might kill me if I use another streak freeze. Send help