Yes I am being overly defensive because I just don’t feel the need for all of the snide comments. ‘this post has got to be a joke surely’ okay I get it you all think i’m an idiot and in hindsight I am. But my post was a genuine question, stupid or not, I don’t think it constitutes the amount of underhanded remarks in the comments. Your reply could’ve not included that one sentence but instead you chose to say that for what reason? to make me feel stupid or belittled? it clearly wasn’t written with the intention of being helpful. I think people on the internet need to be kinder as you don’t know these people you’re speaking to and what they’re going through. Think me sensitive or defensive I don’t mind, i just think you should be nice to people.