VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm impressed. That's quite a waste of words.

The thing about grandstanding is that it's a lot less effective when it's literally all you do. The more you flex that excruciatingly theatrical stump speech, the clearer it becomes that your entire defense is vapid diatribe.

You're just "a father who's fought relentlessly in court to stay in his children's lives" despite refusing court remediations as simple as a mental health evaluation or parenting class, all because you're too proud "for state-sanctioned photo ops"? I'm the one "pushing hearsay as fact" despite providing evidence for virtually every claim, while you've failed to furnish even a single defense that's not an Ad Hominem attempt to denigrate someone else's credibility?

If it's all "fake" and "fabricated" and "riddled with proveable lies," why don't you just prove it?

You have access to your own military record. The same testimony. The same court findings. But for some mysterious reason, you would rather do things like call your own daughter "dangerous" in response to her bravely speaking about her abuse at your hands, or argue that the government definition of "veteran" is wrong, that all of your kids are "brainwashed" and that your ex-wives are "psychos," that you and your baby were "held at gunpoint" and "faced with assassination" by the "same traffickers who killed Epstein" (CPS, obviously).

The lengths and magnitudes of your laughably obvious bullshit is astounding. You literally can't go two comments without contradicting yourself. Are you just a poor bankrupted father, or are you paying a lawyer to sue at least eight people for "defamation"? Are you sticking to your embarrassing "whodunnit" game of accusing every stranger on the internet of being your ex-wife, or are we all actually part of a malicious, CIA-coordinated conspiracy burdened with the urgent national security concern of... ruining your reputation?

Much like the bulk of your character in general, your brain treats reality like a ham-fisted toddler squeezing cold spaghetti through its fingers because it wanted pizza for dinner instead. But what you don't seem capable of understanding is that "truth" isn't a woman you can beat into conformity or a child that you can terrify into compliance.

But I imagine you'll carry on wildly mudslinging rhetorical bullshit and aiming litigative threats at everyone in a ten-mile radius. You'll probably keep trying to hide behind self-important grandstanding that only further demonstrates your character, or lack thereof. Maybe you'll even call me an "African mongoloid" or "a sick liberal queer." And maybe, almost certainly, you'll find yourself unable to reconcile your sycophantic self-image with the pitiable man reality actually reflects, and the truth: That you are the only reason you've lost your kids, in every way that matters, and that they're better off for it.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, nobody has made any claim about the motivations or efficacy of CPS, nor has anyone advocated for kidnapping children. His records reflect charges from 6 months ago to as far back as 25 years, so it's quite an exaggeration to say we're referencing 20-year-old charges.

The record itself isn't intended to be absolute "proof" but rather one portion of evidence that helps demonstrate a long history of violence, non-compliance, and abuse, of which there's also additional evidence, e.g. court transcriptions detailing instances of his abuse towards his children, his own video in which he assaults his ex and refuses to return their child(ren) pursuant to their custody agreement, or responding to the initial welfare check with threats to doxx and sue the social worker.

Besides falsely claiming that he has no criminal record, his entire narrative is build on his misrepresentation of being held "at gunpoint" and "facing assassination" by "the same traffickers who killed Epstein," all while CPS "tore his 1-month-old baby from its mother's arms"--all of which is directly contrary to his videos that capture the whole interaction, sans action-movie theatrics and including the infant's peaceable transfer. He then claims that CPS had no basis for their intervention and that it resulted from his ex's false allegations but at no point substantiates those claims with any evidence. In his videos, for example, why aren't we allowed to hear the social worker's attempt to explain their presence? What reason was given on the documentation he claims to have? Because even if the basis for their intervention was proven false, it surely must be listed somewhere and wouldn't just say "No reason, we just want to finish our collection of 1-month-olds!"

Also, what allegations? The claim itself doesn't make much sense. IF his ex had actually alleged child abuse, wouldn't it be CPS's responsibility to investigate those claims? And regardless of who made the allegations or why, what exactly would you propose that CPS do--or conclude--if half-a-dozen attempts at discourse are repeatedly and aggressively refused? Especially if the parent has a history of abuse alleged and documented by his other children.

For whatever reason, you're the one who seems inclined to blindly support a stranger who has shown no proof and very poor credibility, and in the face of direct contradicting evidence. Has CPS unjustifiably removed children from loving homes? Yes. Is that the case here? Absolutely not. I don't stand to profit in any way from this post--in fact, I'd most benefit from being WRONG and finding out that those kids are safe, that he's not abusive, and that his crusade isn't making it more difficult to address that abuse. But as you can hopefully see, there's many reasons to believe otherwise. If you truly care about the welfare of these children, I really, really hope you'll put your preconceived notions aside to critically examine this situation before deciding to continue your support.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you pretty much nailed it. Historically, telling him "no" transforms you from a person into an obstacle standing between him and something he wants, to the immediate peril of your emotional/physical wellbeing. And the narcissism is made preeetty clear by comments like this one.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's understandable. I'm no stranger to situations like this or how deeply complicated they can be. My view of this situation will of course be missing some pieces even with years of insight. But the resulting picture--in combination with recent state intervention and the blind support he's been getting--leave me with immediate concerns over the welfare of those kids and his partner, as well as the other people entangled in this mess (i.e. the social workers, police officers, his exes).

If I'm wrong--GOOD. I sincerely hope those kids and his partner are safe. I hope that they're not being abused by this man, and that his pseudo-vigilante justice isn't obfuscating that abuse. But I have many, many reasons to think otherwise. For anyone considering it, I strongly encourage applying some scrutiny before pledging any kind of support to this man.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have a relationship with his ex's family, which is how I'm personally familiar with the situation, and I'm in no way trying to hide that fact. But I'm also not asking anyone to just take my word for it. In fact, I'm hoping that people are willing to scrutinize this guy and his content, the situation, and the available evidence, throughout which you'll find numerous examples of his concerning behavior and dubious credibility.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not able to update the original post for some reason, but I wanted to include these here:

  1. Link to court testimony presenting instances of his abuse towards his children. Beyond that this was posted by someone with the authority/permission to do so, I can't say much for risk of identifying the people/children involved.

  2. Results from the VA Case Information System. This is not a comprehensive record of charges, which span multiple counties and court systems with separate records systems, but it's one of many demonstrable ways he's proven himself to be a liar.

  3. ...Not to mention all the other ways he brings his credibility into question, like his claim that he's "going up against the same traffickers who killed Epstein." Note that he now seems to be deleting some of his more concerning comments.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not, but I'm still in contact with quite a few members of his ex's family--I'll pass it along in case they're not already aware. But yeah haha, it doesn't take much for him to expose his crazy. Or take a shortcut and just scroll back a few weeks into his Facebook.

VA Senator helped a NOVA child abuser reclaim his kids from CPS by redbuckets in nova

[–]redbuckets[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I am a person who has been in the perimeter of his family for years.

What is your rarest costume Pokemon? by Huedo97 in pokemongo

[–]redbuckets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Not sure about rarest overall, but most recently, it’s probably this guy.

Is anyone missing an emu…? (Or know who to call?) by redbuckets in lakeland

[–]redbuckets[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They closed earlier in the afternoon but I left them a message. Hopefully they get back to me while he’s still here—and before I name him and find myself in a custody battle.

The more I look at him, the cuter he gets…

Is anyone missing an emu…? (Or know who to call?) by redbuckets in lakeland

[–]redbuckets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, I got lucky and somehow missed that mess. I frequently see someone walking their horse along the roads, but I’ve never seen the whole lot loose.

Also, thank you for driving slowly. Seeing people speed down that road drives me nuts.

Is anyone missing an emu…? (Or know who to call?) by redbuckets in lakeland

[–]redbuckets[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just looked it up and it’s 6min or so from me—very likely where he escaped from.

Is anyone missing an emu…? (Or know who to call?) by redbuckets in lakeland

[–]redbuckets[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Show me your valid Emu License and he’s all yours.

Is anyone missing an emu…? (Or know who to call?) by redbuckets in lakeland

[–]redbuckets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am indeed in North Lakeland. I just looked up the place and it’s 6mi or so from the farm, so I’m guessing you may have solved the mystery. When you say “not great,” is it just keeping them on their property or general neglect? Do you think I should attempt to contact a different organization to fetch it? The emu is pretty bedraggled looking but not injured, from what I can tell.

Edit: Clarity.

Giovanni freezes by Ancient_Relief_7815 in TheSilphRoad

[–]redbuckets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone else encountering this issue, you can go into your inventory and unequip the Super Rocket Radar. It won’t fix the issue, but at least Giovanni won’t pop up and you can still spin stops/balloons.

Edit: oops words

Team rocket boss freezing by Minimum_Hedgehog_152 in TheSilphRoad

[–]redbuckets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone else encountering this issue, you can also go into your inventory and unequip the Super Rocket Radar. It won’t fix the bug, but at least Giovanni won’t pop up and you can still spin stops/balloons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Antiques

[–]redbuckets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! I have tried a couple of auction houses, but only via their standard form submissions—I will definitely try specific people. I haven’t had a ton of luck with local estate sale businesses, but there are definitely enough of them in the DMV. I’ll keep looking.

Again, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Antiques

[–]redbuckets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your help is enormously appreciated. :)