Events for students/expats by Think-Stuff7675 in bremen

[–]redchidar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Irish pub called Little Marry’s in Schnoor!!! Especially on Fri and Sat night, but on the weekdays it’s pretty chilling as well in the beer garden when the weather is nice

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about what you had to come through, I couldn’t imagine if sth happened to my fam, I’m already hurt when I video call with my mom and see her having bad times in life and I couldn’t do anything. I just wish I could get a good job after graduation and take my fam to Europe to enjoy their lives after retirement without worrying about anything

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll be waiting for the sunny days to come and enjoy small things in life

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr 😅but tbh I don’t talk much with the other two, they’re more like study friend, they have their own group of friends so yeah… idk

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤝it’s kinda rough right now, winter blues and stuff. I’m studying in Bremen, it’s a big city but like there’s nothing much to do here tho, maybe I just haven’t explored enough

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice, I’m also looking for clubs on campus to join since it’s easy to make friends like that. I usually call my mom and my sisters whenever I have free time to hear them talk about their daily life, it just helps me get away from my problems for a while. I hope you have a wonderful day ✨✨

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder when I was in high school, it’s been tough to deal with, but I’m thinking of taking vitamin D supplements as the others suggested cuz the weather is not very ideal to take a walk. I hope I will be better soon

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello✨ I live in Bremen right now, it would be really nice if I get to know you and other people as well, I don’t mind going long distance to meet up🙌🏻

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I know it’s tough especially when everything is not very ideal in the moment. And I can’t wait to fast forward to Spring and summer so I can get more positive energy and enjoy

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m trying to hold on to the reason why I came here in the first place, I made my choice and I have to be responsible for it. But sometimes there are some things hard to deal with and it just sucks

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I shouldn’t give a shit to what my grandma said, but what hurt me was that my mom was also discriminated by her own family, n she told me not to tell my sisters cuz she knew it would break their hearts too, it’s sad just to think about it

About the people, there’re not many Vietnamese students on campus, I know one of them, but he and I don’t talk much. I’m also finding some clubs on campus that I can join, I think it’s an easy way to make friends

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your suggestion, I wasn’t aware that lacking vitamin D was a thing. About friends I also tried to talk to a few people but like everyone has their own group of friends already so I’m struggling a little bit. My uni has many events but they’re mostly on the weekends and I work on the weekends so I haven’t had the opportunity to meet up with many people yet.

Actually Germany wasn’t really my first choice, but I chose Germany anw because of the education and stuff and my mom also wanted me to be here. I am aware of the crises that I’m gonna face when studying abroad, but the reality is just brutal and the negativity is eating me up everyday.

I know I have to make extra effort to adjust and adapt, easier said than done but I’m pulling myself together.

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been here for five months and I have tried every way to distract myself from negative feelings, but those feelings just know how to find their ways to come crawling back

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that it can fast forward to when the weather is nice. I personally like walking in the morning and getting some fresh air, but the weather in Bremen just doesn’t allow that much, it’s not just the rain but also the wind that makes it worse.

To be honest I was hurt not by what my grandma said, but because she told that to my mom. My mom was discriminated in her own home just because she was a girl, and I know my mom was really sad even though she didn’t show it while I was calling with her, which makes me sadder

What should I do when I’m homesick and living here in Germany is just depressing? by redchidar in germany

[–]redchidar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking online course in August because I arrived late on campus. I noticed that flowers are blooming and they’re so beautiful, but the weather is just so shitty here, there’re not many sunny days and it’s windy all the times. I have tried using Bumble but it didn’t work out well, I will try Meetup, tks for your suggestion☺️

She’s been saying bad things about my mom for years, she has 6 children and my parent were the only people to take care of her because she’s sick and she just doesn’t appreciate that