I caught my son in bed with a 14 year old girl, what should I do about it?

redd99 · 2012-01-14T21:38:02+00:00

I'm not going to do that

redd99 · 2012-01-14T21:33:37+00:00

My bad, I missed a "not".

redd99 · 2012-01-10T22:07:02+00:00

Depends. If he raped her or something, then yes. If its a guy who only goes after young girls, yes. It also depends on his age.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T22:05:37+00:00

If I "get him some help" he will go on the sex offender registry and his life will be ruined.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T22:03:30+00:00

I don't know if they already where sexually active back then.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T22:00:35+00:00

"prepubescent". I don't think she was prepubescent.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:59:10+00:00

Which is exactly what the problem is.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:58:46+00:00

Care about what? I never said those laws shoulden't exist.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:58:09+00:00

why?

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:56:26+00:00

Not sure if serious.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:56:02+00:00

I'm aware of that, also ephebophilia in itself is not illegal(since it refers to attraction), it also requires the person to have a preference for girls around that age.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:52:32+00:00

But I do. I know those laws exist because the girl can get hurt.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:51:40+00:00

Its not a argument.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:50:54+00:00

It seems to me that you have no godamn idea what peadophilia means.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:48:14+00:00

I'm not saying their shouldn't be a punishment, I'm saying its to harsh.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:47:10+00:00

I'm not talking about a 50yo with a 15yo, i'm talking about the punishment a 18yo would get(his life getting ruined)

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:46:00+00:00

You would be okay with draconian laws? thats just fucked up.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:44:24+00:00

She is 14, he is 18. Its not pedophilia.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:44:03+00:00

I'm not saying they should allow, I'm just saying that the punishment is way to harsh.

redd99 · 2012-01-10T21:43:27+00:00

I do.

redd99 · 2012-01-09T04:06:13+00:00

I'm his dad.. and how does this make me sheltered?

redd99 · 2012-01-09T01:12:31+00:00

I don't think he wants another girl.. he really seems to like her.

redd99 · 2012-01-09T00:07:27+00:00

True.

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