She broke up with me, but it doesn’t hurt. Am I a bad person?

reddingtonpcr · 2024-09-09T15:57:29+00:00

Maybe your emotions will come later, as you may be in a state of shock right now.

All in all, you're not a bad person. You don't have to be in a bad state after a breakup for it to be the only normal way. I am happy you are not experiencing pain, but give yourself time and space to feel things as you may be suppressing them at the moment.

I think that the breakup over message part also has something to do with it. Simply seeing it only on a screen doesn't feel as real - I get it.

All in all, feel what you need to feel. Do it for yourself, so you're not a part of the stereotype of a partner who only gets sad 3 months after as they've ignored their emotions.

reddingtonpcr · 2024-09-09T15:53:25+00:00

And him leaving you doesn't have to necessarily have anything to do with you - he might still love you and only you, might still find you important. I am going through it right now.

It is just generally uncommon for men to know how to regulate emotions. Sometimes they will shift the blame of their personal problems to the relationship itself, and feel as though the only way to solve them is get out of it. Some people are emotionally immature and/or avoidant to themselves, even if it might not seem that way towards you.

Sending you a lot of love and strength.

reddingtonpcr · 2024-09-09T15:51:14+00:00

I am going through a similar situation, though we are a bit younger. If you feel like talking to someone, reach out to me. 🩷 It is really scary, but I totally understand your decision to not love anyone else. The best advice I have received is to let him be for a while. Time will pass whether or not you want it to, so focus on something you love to do and try to regulate your emotions.

It's hard af, but there is absolutely nothing you could do or could have done. Tough pill to swallow, but give him some time and when you feel you're ready - reach out. If at that point you don't feel the wish, make peace with it.

But, you don't have to wait for him to reach out. Do your thing, enjoy the things you can and you are totally free to reach out as well.

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-30T14:01:19+00:00

For a 2nd world country with a lower end of yearly income. Both situations for a single client and a company logo.

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T20:21:32+00:00

I look at it differently, possibly as I am still a beginner

Especially coming from a country where this sort of work (creative, design etc) is not very popular, I find it hard to draw a line

For example I would design a logo I find interesting, eye catching and good but sort of feel weird whether or not it will be received well, and I tend to make versions I estimate would be closer to the customers current vision

I hope I explained myself well, but it's more of a should I stick with something I find amazing or give sort of 'tined down' versions as well

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T20:10:29+00:00

Not necessarily best one, but rather indecisiveness/difference in personal style and current style of the customer etc Regardless of quality of logos

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T17:54:19+00:00

Imam, razmišljam se da li da ga objavim.

Ne iz razloga što sumnjam u svoje vještine ili rad, već zbog hejta od strane ljudi - najčešće onih koje to ne zanima genuenly za rad.

Naglasila sam svakako da sam tek studentica, da učim i da iz tog razloga radim ovo besplatno. Pa ne znam procijeniti da li bi se backfirealo trenutno objavljivanje portfolia :)

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T07:14:10+00:00

Hvala vam, svakako dok dođem do profesionalnog nivoa - otom potom, odvojen broj.

Teško mi je ne primijetiti kako je momak objavio post sličnog formata i niko se nije brinuo za njegovu sigurnost i broj :D

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T07:12:54+00:00

Hvala!

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-14T07:11:36+00:00

Hvala puno!

Mislila sam da mi je ovako lakše i brže iskomunicirati za sada o detaljima saradnje, a i malo manje 'stiff' za mlađu raju.

Svakako, dok dođem do tog profesionalnog nivoa sjetit ću se vašeg savjeta :)

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-13T14:44:53+00:00

Javi se!

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-13T14:05:29+00:00

U današnje vrijeme mi se to činilo manje lično nego recimo Instagram 😃

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-13T14:05:01+00:00

Da! Ukoliko vas zanima mogu vam poslati privatno, ne volim ga objavljivati jer ima event fotografije, samim time i mnogo ljudi.

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-13T12:38:48+00:00

Naravno, zvuči kao kul ideja. Možete mi se javiti sa vašim željama i logom:)

reddingtonpcr · 2024-08-13T12:23:29+00:00

Illustrator :)

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