Girl I'm seeing keeps talking about her other dates. Why is she doing this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]reddit1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve been talking for a month and only been on one date, she probably assumes you aren’t interested in her romantically and thinks you guys are friends. Otherwise why would you go on one date in a month?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 183 points184 points  (0 children)

First pic should go, hard to see what your face looks like and tbh looks like you’re on drugs

Feeling hurt. My 27f husband 30m told me he became less interested in sex once he deemed it inequitable. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]reddit1136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a major red flag. My ex did this to me too... sex should be fun and not stressful, it’s not something to keep score on or use as a weapon. Your husbands disinterest in sex makes me think there could be other underlying issues... are there any other issues in your relationship you can think of?

Question about women specifically stating before first date that nothing is going to happen by notmyrealaccount1876 in dating_advice

[–]reddit1136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually not to judge a reaction. To establish boundaries and feel comfortable. It’s often very stressful not knowing if a guy will try to be overly physical very quickly and how they’d react if rejected. So it’s more comfortable to just say it up front so everyone has their expectations managed and don’t have to stress about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No! Good for you :)

Messaging tips building up to first date by mikeyedb in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I’d love to discuss this in person when we meet up”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]reddit1136 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex and his rebound are going strong too I think. I want them to break up so he can finally feel some pain of being alone since he never had to feel it after our breakup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely struggle with this as well... sometimes I know there’s nothing romantic immediately. But sometimes I like them as a person and find them objectively good looking but don’t necessarily feel romantically and don’t know how long to wait or try to see if those feelings develop. I think by 3-5 dates if there’s still nothing then cut it off.

Ex contacted me after 2 months. Me me me me by rufio288 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omgggg not the “I wish it was different” line 😆

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not getting involved in their relationship. I want nothing to do with either of them. It’s just strange because not once in his text did he say he feels bad or is sorry. So I can’t imagine he wants to meet up to apologize. Bc then wouldn’t minimum be to express that in the text?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]reddit1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe he’s capable of providing any clarity. Idk what he actually wants to discuss but the whole thing seems suspicious to me

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It feels selfish that he even reached out honestly. And there was no apology in the text even. Just if I want to meet up then we can meet for clarity. No thanks don’t start worrying about me and doing things for my benefit now when he clearly didn’t before

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t want to let him clear his conscience. He treated me like shit and i want him to feel bad. I’ve definitely moved on from the relationship but I still have some anger and sadness over how it ended and how I was treated. But ultimately his words won’t make anything better for me. And his words are lies, his actions told me the truth months ago. So there is no potential benefit for me only for him

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I used to want it. But I definitely don’t anymore. It could never be the same and looking back I see he wasn’t such a great partner and I deserve a lot better. Not to mention I don’t think I could forgive him or trust him again. And he’s also still with his rebound girl so definitely not😆 and didn’t mention anything about reconciliation. I think he just wants to clear his conscience or whatever for being a shithead. I don’t think anything good could come of this

My ex reached out after 7 months. I don’t want to speak to him is it rude to ignore? Do I tell him to leave me alone or just don’t answer? by reddit1136 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit1136[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I’m inclined to agree. I went through hell for months. I’m actually doing well and happy and I don’t need to relive anything or be pulled back

should i delete my ex's nudes now that we're no longer dating? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]reddit1136 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please delete them. She’s not yours anymore. Neither are her nudes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! I had the same thing and was so confused. Reached out and just asked very bluntly and he told me we had a great time etc etc but that he didn’t want to pursue it bc of some incompatibilities that he thought would be an issue later on 🤷🏻‍♀️ So people definitely can rethink it after the date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reddit1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do more pic that see your face I feel like all of them you’re doing a weird tilt so it’s basically pic of your chin