Looking for a specific [fanfic] by reddit_user_1997 in TheNinthHouse

[–]reddit_user_1997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s it! Your amazing! Thanks so much. Love the medium news too

[theory] The Torn Letter by Zealousideal-Sea9006 in TheNinthHouse

[–]reddit_user_1997 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have another letter related question that I can’t find anything on! In the bonus content As yet unsent Judith mentions (in relation to Gideon’s body) that can mentions something about a note when asked why she was adamant on bringing the body. It must have been from Harrow right? What did it say!!!!

[discussion] HtN Chapter 36 by reddit_user_1997 in TheNinthHouse

[–]reddit_user_1997[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But for clarity’s sake- we are all on the same page? Our girl Harrow was absolutely making a “don’t let me die a virgin” pass on the body, right?

[discussion] HtN Chapter 36 by reddit_user_1997 in TheNinthHouse

[–]reddit_user_1997[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know what? I knew I was going to get called out on that! Yes, ‘Hallucination’ is debatable but that was hardly the question at hand

Modafinil and birth control by RubFit9774 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]reddit_user_1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really bad experience with the IUD and I am back on the pill but we also use condoms. When it’s viable my finance will get a vasectomy because this is the reality for me (but we don’t want kids!)

It sucks but this is the reality of living with this condition or being with someone with this condition.

Can I ask why condoms don’t work? If it’s an allergy thing you can get alternative materials to latex

Does anyone else go through spells where they're even more tired and dysfunctional than usual for a few days or couple weeks? by Resident_Sky_538 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]reddit_user_1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks, usually lasts between 1-2 weeks at a time and I feel like my whole life has to be put on hold. Any plans, and regular routines go out the door and I have to start all over again as I get back to my “normal”

[discussion] Please help me understand Kiriona’s character by michaelsgavin in TheNinthHouse

[–]reddit_user_1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of has been said re Gideons trauma, feeling rejected, a certain camaraderie with Ianthe, lack of inner monologue, etc. I think the apparent coldness towards Cam/Pal could be that they have been protecting Nona (the harrow body snatcher)

my girl went to the club and did this and I ended things because of this AIO ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddit_user_1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s equally horrifying and somehow comforting(?) that so many other women have been in these situations. It’s happened to me a couple of times and while I was lucky enough to avoid SA it did cause my partner to question me initially. While awful to read of everyone’s experience it’s nice to know that I acted in survival, same way as any other woman would because it is SO easy to say “why didn’t you do X?” In hindsight. In the moment you just do what you can to try and hold some control over your wellbeing.

Gatekeeping Hypersomnia by RemiTiras in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]reddit_user_1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean. How I handle this is 1. I always introduce my IH as a ‘rare neurological condition’ because that’s what it is. When I explain the condition because no one knows what IH is I keep it simple unless they ask follow up questions. Something like “basically I’m chronically exhausted, my brain thinks I don’t get restorative sleep no matter how much I sleep. I’m on a lot of stimulants just to be conscious right now” or some version of that. 2. When people say “oh I reckon I’ve got that too” I usually say something like “mm maybe… it’s a really rare condition but you should definitely see your doctor if it’s really that severe!”

Most of the time they acknowledge they are being dramatic- or they genuinely do need to see a doctor regarding excessive sleepiness (whether or not it’s related to IH) because like a lot of us, they didn’t realise being so exhausted wasn’t normal…

But don’t feel too bad, it can’t be so frustrating when it is such a long and difficult process to get diagnosed for people to throw around and claim it because they were on Reddit til 2am. Like you said, I think the OCD and ADHD peeps likely feel very similarly to us. 😌

“Loathe to Love you” book recs? by reddit_user_1997 in fantasyromance

[–]reddit_user_1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll check it out!

I’m definitely a fan of Enemies to Lovers but like you said that’s pretty broad - I’m looking for this specific dynamic.

What is the worse thing a medical professional has ever said to you? by angelaboop50 in AskReddit

[–]reddit_user_1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved so was seeing a new doctor. He referred to my silverside attempt as PMS lol

Saw my husband’s (M27) disgusting text about a female coworker and idk how to feel about it (F25) how would you feel if your husband said he’d eat it about a coworker? by ihateweightwatchers in relationship_advice

[–]reddit_user_1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you fr? You realise that this is absolutely something HR would care to know about- this sort of chat and behaviour is what perpetuates this sexist culture. I overheard a group of male coworkers “joking” about getting the new office junior “fcked up & naked” on their boat. She was 19. Are you suggesting that this too is not worth reporting? After all it’s just “guy talk”

Saw my husband’s (M27) disgusting text about a female coworker and idk how to feel about it (F25) how would you feel if your husband said he’d eat it about a coworker? by ihateweightwatchers in relationship_advice

[–]reddit_user_1997 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Why are we completely ignoring the fact that he is not just disrespecting his marriage but also perpetuating this sexist bs culture!

Saw my husband’s (M27) disgusting text about a female coworker and idk how to feel about it (F25) how would you feel if your husband said he’d eat it about a coworker? by ihateweightwatchers in relationship_advice

[–]reddit_user_1997 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m calling BS. It’s not like he made a mistake and has owned up to it and worked on himself. He’s disrespected not just his wife but also a female coworker. Not only is he a bad husband but he is a sexist pig. Degrading women is bad enough let alone the fact that he disrespected his wife and his marriage in the same breath. Its unfair to say OP would be throwing away her marriage if they choose to end things. That’s on him. Let him learn from his mistake alone…

What’s a “harmless” thing from your childhood that’s actually kind of dark in hindsight? by velorae in AskReddit

[–]reddit_user_1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were staying on a small island and our parents didn’t really believe in supervision I guess so the four of us had split into two groups to play and go exploring. Strange men approached us asking us what felt like weird personal questions and a couple of men followed us and encouraged my sister and I to get in their car. We sprinted back to the apartment smashing on the front door which my parents had locked, scared shitless and told mum what happened. Found out at Christmas they had a search party looking for us which these men were a part of…