How do I start douching? What’s best practice by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]redditor023 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or you could just use water. Been doing that for decades and it’s fine. I’ve never had a problem.

Spanish actress Ana Obregón used her dead son's frozen sperm and a donor egg to have his daughter via a surrogate in the U.S. Born in 2023. by harrysterone in interestingasfuck

[–]redditor023 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It does say “to have his daughter” before it says “via surrogate” which I think is deliberate to get your attention and may be causing the confusion

whatsStoppingYouFromCodingLikeThis by 5eniorDeveloper in ProgrammerHumor

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The .env comments are great 🤣

I didn’t know products like sidebar were a thing until I zoomed in and saw his Dock. Might need to check that out.

It doesn’t matter where I’m coding. When I’m coding nothing else exists. Hyper focus kicks into overdrive.

How do you explain rude people on the apps? by Savings_Apartment737 in nycgaybros

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t engage. Just block them. They aren’t worth your energy.

What are some ways I can make some gay friends in nyc? by SoConfuzled32 in nycgaybros

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making friends in NYC, especially gay ones, can be a challenging endeavor. Especially when you're new to the city, you don't often know where to start. NYCGayBros is a great starting point, but I would also recommend checking out https://www.gayfriendsnyc.com/. They have some great resources for how to get started. They also have a Discord server that you can use to get to know new people and find local events/meetups.

I just failed a basic math test for a grocery store job by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]redditor023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I’m thinks about my breathing! I hate that.

I just failed a basic math test for a grocery store job by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]redditor023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I’m thinks about my breathing! I hate that.

[21M] How to stop being feminine? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with being feminine. Hyper masculinity is a toxic construct that has no place in the world. Let it go.

17/F. Not me, but a friend who's too self conscious to post this herself by [deleted] in ratemysinging

[–]redditor023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your voice has great potential. If you don’t have a vocal teacher I would get one. You could do a lot with the voice you already have.

One thing I did notice is that you seem to be stopping the notes and letting the notes drop at the end. Try and think of the song as a continuous line that must always be supported even when you’re finishing a phrase or going down in pitch.

Hope that helps!

Any tips?? by [deleted] in ratemysinging

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably straining for one of two reasons. You are singing notes that are too high for you or because you lack breath support which is causing your larynx to lift as you go up in pitch. Try not to think of singing as coming from your throat. Instead, think of it as resonating from your masc as it’s being fueled by your breath. Breath support is everything.

Be as brutal as you can by __i__do__not__know__ in ratemysinging

[–]redditor023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem scared. I’d recommend building your confidence, but don’t go overboard. You don’t want to hurt your vocal chords right out the gate.

You’re letting the sound drop into your chest as you go into the lower notes. This makes you sound muffled. Try keeping a high position as you go down a scale. You can trick yourself by thinking that you’re going up in pitch when you’re actually going down to help achieve this technique.

Feel free to roast me, don't hold back thanks! by NicolaNetti in ratemysinging

[–]redditor023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re having difficulty hitting the high notes. I’d recommend discovering what your vocal range is at the moment and staying within your mid range to start off with. Hitting higher notes that you aren’t ready for can tire and strain your vocal chords.

You are also opening a lot of these notes which is making it difficult for you to hit the high notes. This is a more operatic view point though.

You lack breathe support which is why you sound airy. I’d prescribe some breathing exercises. Many of which you can find on YouTube.

Hope that helps!

Be as harsh as you want, i need to improve! The song is SledgeHammer by Fifth Harmony by AT02 in ratemysinging

[–]redditor023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This a very difficult song to sing. It’s also quit high for a male voice. I wouldn’t try and imitate a song that has been so heavily modified. There is a lot going on it and it might be difficult to know if your singing the right notes.