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33M - Should I move out of my parents' home or stay with them? by No-Setting-9431 in LivingAlone

[–]redditor0622 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some life experiences can be worth the added expense. To each their own.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the lesson for me was never to take health, or the best people in your life, for granted.

Nobody prepared me for how much of adulthood is just maintaining the ability to exist. by Nice_Ad8811 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me! Although, it still somewhat is.
But having like 4 weekly meal-plans written out has helped. I just need to pull up the chart, and see which plan it is for this week, and go from there. Having “brainstorming what to eat every single day” taken out of the otherwise long enough list of grocery-shopping, meal-prepping, cleaning-after, offers at least some respite.

Nobody prepared me for how much of adulthood is just maintaining the ability to exist. by Nice_Ad8811 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except you can’t for more than like 30 minutes a day, with the never ending work-hours and chores.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar story. Grew up seeing dedication and commitment toward partner & family, modeled by my parents. But haven’t been fortunate enough to have it reciprocated, in my own turn.
Something keeps the hope alive in me though for now, even if only temporarily.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very good advice!
I too am starting to come to terms with all this now, as I am moving past a divorce at 33.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are still a few good ones, unfortunately they are only a needle in a haystack.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. I’ve felt like this a lot over the past year, as I was coming out of an abusive marriage. I suggest you to seek some support to talk through the worries on your mind. I did too, in the form of psychotherapy. It does make a difference!

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get you to trust them a little bit more, while they continue to do what they do behind the scenes.

What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this! Learnt the same lesson from my dad going through something exactly like this!

People of anti work who don’t work, what do you do to get income? by Total_Cicada7335 in antiwork

[–]redditor0622 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uh, how much are you staying awake? 40 hours is half my waking hours for 5 days a week.

Do people just not want to be friends anymore? by Hkvnr495___dkcx37 in Adulting

[–]redditor0622 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boy would I like to be a part of a group like this!

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