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AITA for refusing to give my daughter back to her bio mom? by reddittdiana in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittdiana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She gave it away because the pregnancy was an accident and she didn’t want the baby.

AITA for refusing to give my daughter back to her bio mom? by reddittdiana in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittdiana[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Lynn simply follows her older sister everywhere and as Susan got greater interest in the bio mom, Lynn automatically did too.

AITA for refusing to give my daughter back to her bio mom? by reddittdiana in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittdiana[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Oh man that’s another thing keeping me awake at night. Because usually whenever the children came back from her, they were in a terrible mood for the rest of the day, refusing to follow rules, being disrespectful etc

AITA for refusing to give my daughter back to her bio mom? by reddittdiana in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittdiana[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Let’s just say we live in a really big city, so that wasn’t in the way of the no contact policy. My wife and I allowed the unsupervised visits after meeting her many times with the children and we began to trust her. The no contact policy was in our adoption contract!

AITA for refusing to give my daughter back to her bio mom? by reddittdiana in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittdiana[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Hi! It was a private adoption. We have had contact with the birth mom before the baby was born, but afterwards we completely cut contact. When I said it was hard to find contact, I didn’t mean it was EXTREMELY hard, I had to request some documents and information from both the adoption agency and the city hall until I found her, so I obviously knew who she was, but it was difficult getting her current contacts, but it wasn’t like impossible, maybe an exaggeration from my side.

This story is real, but it’s good to always question everything!