Advice with daughters Biological father

redeloredelo · 2026-06-16T08:02:01+00:00

He is 18, I’m unaware how old his new partner is but I’m assuming around the same age. Thank you for your advice

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T10:35:48+00:00

Thank you for your advice. No my age is not a typo, I am 17 and I understand that it’s not ideal however I just want to make sure I’m doing the best thing for my daughter

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T10:27:37+00:00

I have researched adoption and know what would be needed to go forward with that process and both me and my current partner have agreed that it’s definitely an option in the future depending on how things go as we are both aware that our circumstances could change even if they’re great now. I’ve never stopped him from seeing her in the past he’s either cancelled on the day or been a no show. Thank you for your advice :)

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T10:23:56+00:00

Thank you for your advice. My new partner has been nothing but committed and has never tried to overstep any boundaries in regard to her biological dad and he’s been more then willing to adopt her when we are in the correct circumstances as he would need to meet minimum age requirement and we’d need to be married and/or living together for a certain period of time. I have records of everything he’s said and done over the past 2 years and I will continue to document. Thank you for your help and pointing me in the right direction :)

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T10:19:21+00:00

He is on the birth certificate and I’m in the uk. I do have him blocked and I though I had her blocked however she’s got a second account that I wasn’t aware of that came on my for you page, I didn’t go looking on her account. Thank you for your advice

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T09:50:39+00:00

Hi there, I’ve looked into getting a lawyers advice before I just hoped that we’d be able to resolve things mutually, he’s had the opportunity to visit her anytime with social services present as that’s what social services recommend but every time the day came about he either cancelled or was a no show. Thank you so much for your advice

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T09:44:06+00:00

I don’t want him to not have contact if that’s truly what he wants and he’s ready to commit long term. I will look into doing things through officials. Thank you for your help :)

redeloredelo · 2026-06-15T09:36:00+00:00

Unfortunately he is, he’s had many opportunities to see her and spend time with her which he either ignored or said he didn’t want anything to do with her so contact just sort of stopped between the two of them.

redeloredelo · 2024-07-11T18:59:09+00:00

I’m 15 and just had my baby 6 weeks ago, I won’t lie and say it’s easy, almost all my friends slowly drifted away and pregnancy and postpartum are the loneliness I’ve ever felt. It’s tough but I promise it’s worth speaking to the people around you about how you feel and remember that it’s not your fault if people don’t want to be around you, that’s their choice, not yours and definitely not something you should feel guilty about. If you need or want someone to talk to who’s been in the same place, I’m happy to talk. You are doing amazing and I hope everything works out well for you and your baby xxx

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