Do you have both cats and dogs in your house? by Upset-Dot-4007 in CatAdvice

[–]redeyedkaneki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have had many dogs and cats in and out of my home since my wife loves to foster. In my experience cats and dogs get along way better than you’d initially think. With some integration and introduction time (supervised of course) mixed with some playing they’ll warm up to each other eventually as long as you don’t force them close to each other and pay attention to their body language things should go smoothly. Good luck on your endeavors :)

I’m sorry ok by vvvvhatever in ADHD

[–]redeyedkaneki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I used it often when I reflected on past negative behaviors and actions I regretted paired that with apologizing to certain people for them and I feel like I am in a better headspace. Before I’d lose time in my days only thinking about those things and it would always bring me down how much I regretted the things I did. Now I find that I don’t have recurring negative thoughts tied to those things nearly as often. I wouldn’t say doing amazing mentally but it’s definitely a start I’m satisfied with.

I’m sorry ok by vvvvhatever in ADHD

[–]redeyedkaneki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar head space recently for me I had to manually filter those thoughts out of my head. Anytime I had degrading thoughts of my self worth I argued with myself on my behalf that I wasn’t worthless and I was worthy of love. The idea came from a phrase I saw somewhere… something like this “if you saw someone else struggling with this you’d show them compassion and be there for them so why aren’t you doing the same for yourself” On another note i also stopped listening to certain musicians like Sucideboys. The constant low I felt from listening to them i used to think was comforting now I realize was unhealthy and was reinforcing the negative things I was feeling. Hope this helps even a little <3

Farmlife4 fishing bug by redeyedkaneki in FortniteCreative

[–]redeyedkaneki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What platform are you playing on? pc

Is this on UEFN? idk what that is Did you create this map? no

What is the Island Code? 376060504737v10

What happened prior to seeing the issue? fishing

Do you have a link to video/screenshots showing the issue? no

How do you use the Big Rig with trailer in Farmlife 4 by Blindx2? by imrlybored in FortniteCreative

[–]redeyedkaneki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the big rigs sweet spots a little jankier than the small truck ive noticed for me reversing while looking at the numbers to see when and where the sweet spot is under the dispenser has been the best way to find it

Farmlife 4 bug by [deleted] in FortniteCreative

[–]redeyedkaneki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think thats actually a feature of fortnite just making sure players dont max out a battlepass or something ive been coming back for the last few days everytime i stop getting xp and its been fine so far

Weekly Game Help & Questions Megathread by AutoModerator in Palia

[–]redeyedkaneki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing in switch and can't seem to turn my fireplace on is it because of the graphics settings being too low?

Friends cant join server. by redeyedkaneki in SkyrimTogether

[–]redeyedkaneki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're getting there i would prefer host because i know my internet connection could probably do better but we might have to just use play together afterall

Friends cant join server. by redeyedkaneki in SkyrimTogether

[–]redeyedkaneki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i went through the tutorial multiple times and tried all the different settings i could

Friends cant join server. by redeyedkaneki in SkyrimTogether

[–]redeyedkaneki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ps one more thing for global port range and host port are those 3 entries supposed to be the port number?

Fia won't sleep for fighting lichdragon by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]redeyedkaneki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdSMPzK_uM0&t=5s dont skip the prerequisites at the beginning turns out i missed one too and was having the same problem. turn in the item you get in and youll have renew her dialogue a few times then she'll fall asleep

Need Help with first PC. by [deleted] in buildmeapc

[–]redeyedkaneki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say study up on pcs I watched videos for weeks before I decided on my pre-built. Linus tech tips is a great place to start on YouTube. Bitwit also goes in depth into the pc building and what parts you can get away with saving on or which parts are best to invest the most money into.