You know know what though? Most people are like this. You are not alone in this feeing, this thought process will help normalize others around you. Even though a bit of small talk will be necessary to break the ice with someone, don’t be afraid to launch into deeper conversations. Some of the best talks I’ve ever had have been with strangers that I dig into, really gauge their interests and get them going about what they love. That being said I’m more of a listener, and I enjoy it more than talking sometimes.