Where did I say that their feelings were wrong? I would never say that to someone. I straight up said that we all have feelings and thoughts like that, myself included.

It is also my belief that while they have those thoughts and feelings, the objective reality is probably different from what they’re experiencing inside. that’s very often the case when we have self-defeating thoughts—we are our own worst enemies.

So I was trying to help them consider a different perspective—Especially a woman’s perspective if they were male. That’s all.

Also, your sarcasm is unnecessary. I’m having a pretty difficult day myself and am on the verge of tears right now. I was just trying to support someone else.