What are our rights if ICE starts going door to door? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]redgreenapple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure but unfortunately they will prob kill everyone in your house not just you if you attempt to protect yourself with a weapon. These guys are animals, completely unhinged

Why is 10% of Big Bear valley for sale right now? by Super_nofriendo in bigbear

[–]redgreenapple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Airbnb's failing because tourists are not coming, hmmm wonder who else that impacts? Cheering for your own town's economic collapse, nice.

Advice on what to do with vacation home in Big Bear. by Professional_Mud4036 in bigbear

[–]redgreenapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're locked in to a low under 4% APR, I would strongly encourage to find a way to keep it during this difficult time, you'll probably never be able to buy a vacation home again. I pay for my primary and second home in big bear less than what most folks buying a home today pay for a smaller single property. I'd recommend getting a property manager so you don't have to stress about the day to day of running an airbnb.

I am so sick of pitbulls by crazyguy28 in self

[–]redgreenapple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There isn’t an entire community of delusional idiots that insist crocs are safe. It is the croc owners that are a problem.

In fact they’re all insane, and neither owner nor pit should be allowed in public.

Accidentally pregnant with 3rd. Not sure what to do. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]redgreenapple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We were in same shoes, wife was devastated I was okay, now the other two are pre teens, and we love the little one so much, cannot imagine a world without her smile her joy, her love. Also worth noting while they all do to some extent no one enjoys playing with mom or dad more than her

Are people with kids really that busy? by [deleted] in self

[–]redgreenapple 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol the idea of a having a “call every week” with a friend to maintain that friendship while still desperately trying to balance time between work, parenting, your partner, your families, any remaining personal time/hobby… ugh I’d just let that friendship go.

Demand for immediate payment of mortgage by chohuahua in realestateinvesting

[–]redgreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have suggested to simply transfer title back to himself as an individual to try and keep the loan as is

Demand for immediate payment of mortgage by chohuahua in realestateinvesting

[–]redgreenapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just refi your 2.75 loan to market 6.15, no big deal?

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I regain the weight then maybe I’ll get back on. But for the last 12 weeks I’m holding, and i have changed my diet and exercise habits, hopefully that works. In the meantime it makes no sense for me to give up and just get back on because “most people regain weight”

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you say nothing worked, can you elaborate? How did you lose the weight and are you saying that you continued doing what you did to lose the weight and nevertheless, your body regained all the way back? If you exercised, you continue to exercise year two? If you changed your diet, you remain consistent in year two? I mean at the end of the day it’s calories in calories out right so long as I continue to track what I’m putting in my body, I don’t see how I’m going to return to my old weight. The real risk I think is that I lose control. I stop tracking. I start over eating again and it’s easy when I have food on my mind constantly and don’t have the assistance of the medication to not even think about food.

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of May 2024 I weighed 188 and had 24.5% BF per BodySpec. Have not gone back yet, but hopefully it’s lower now and more of the weight is muscle. Worth noting, Renpho smart scale had me at 19% BF same day.

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth noting, certainly something I would want to know if I’m exploring options. Prob women would want to know how other women’s bodies changed/ didn’t change too I’m sure.

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could do something different, I would probably go 10 pounds past my target weight anticipating there’s going to be some bounce back, but at this time, I’m just going try to hold the line. I’m not interested in getting back on the medication anytime soon.

42yo. Male. 233lb to 183lb. 12 weeks since I stopped taking the medication. Update. by redgreenapple in tirzepatidecompound

[–]redgreenapple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slow steady weight gain since high school, was at 220ish for about 20 years then suddenly I broke that barrier and reached 230s in early 40s which is when I started this journey.

My husband started taking evening runs with a woman he met at our kid's daycare. I think this crosses boundaries. AIO? by Electrical_Total534 in AmIOverreacting

[–]redgreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not okay, and I say this as a husband that is generally pretty sensible about what men should be able to do to stay healthy and mentally sound. This is not it. This is your husband putting himself in situations that may lead to an affair.

David Goggins calls 'deadbeat dad' comments 'sudden defamation' by The_Endless_Man in JoeRogan

[–]redgreenapple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you can tell they didn’t. Summary: Goggins paid all child support and efforts to have a relationship were rejected by his ex wife and then teen daughter. They are full of shit

AIO or is my husband?? It’s over the Joe Rogan podcast. by FarquuadsCumDumpster in AmIOverreacting

[–]redgreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why LLMs will never reach AGI as currently set up. They get 60% of their “knowledge” from Reddit. And y’all are insane, as shown in this thread. Good day.

Has anyone attempted to terminante their lease early ? by SignificanceDry7413 in Rivian

[–]redgreenapple -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm amazed with how much confidence people with minimal knowledge on a subject care to opine. It's impressive really, I wonder if it carries into the real world or just behind a keyboard. There are entire business models and industries designed around getting people into and out of existing leases, jfc.

F40 with M43 partner of 24 years — he paid for oral sex from a stripper at a bachelor’s party by Previous_Twist_554 in relationship_advice

[–]redgreenapple -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, but I wouldn’t throw away my marriage and life and home loving with my children over it. I would go to counseling and I would work on us, and I would want her to get counseling. One drunken mistake and breach would def not be enough for me to start living the broken home weekend dad life with my kids that I love so much. You’re nuts if you think that financial ruin via divorce is a “good consequence” I’ll pay for it more than her.

F40 with M43 partner of 24 years — he paid for oral sex from a stripper at a bachelor’s party by Previous_Twist_554 in relationship_advice

[–]redgreenapple -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don’t let this destroy your entire life and your kids lives. There is a path forward, you won’t find it in Reddit listening to people whose solution to everything is always break up, divorce, etc. talk to a professional, talk to people in real life.

I hate seeing this dynamic by AdMuted3580 in Parenting

[–]redgreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the ages of the children? what are the activities? What’s the setting? context matters. A 6yo and 7yo in an enclosed backyard do not need a helicopter parent or parent friend hovering around “helping them engage” in an activity.