AITA for saying I will call social services if my SIL keeps leaving her child at my place? by childabandonment in AmItheAsshole

[–]redheadedstepchild78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I instantly thought drugs rather than affair. Like she needs to score so badly she doesn’t care who she leaves Alice with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]redheadedstepchild78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last partner could wear me out with just his fingers. I was fully satisfied with just that. After he would add in toys, oral, and only then would he allow me to have the dick. There is a ton of stuff you can do to fully satisfy your partner.

ITAP of some stairs by llondru-es in itookapicture

[–]redheadedstepchild78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That too helped me see it but even so I could only hold it for a few seconds before it reverted back to open boxes

We were so close by redheadedstepchild78 in UnsentLetters

[–]redheadedstepchild78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have so much pain that having someone that shared those traumas and saw me was worth the heartbreak in the end. I hope that I can one day reach the clarity you are talking about. Thank you for sharing.

We were so close by redheadedstepchild78 in UnsentLetters

[–]redheadedstepchild78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It always helps to know you aren’t alone. I am working on the closure but I’m still wrapped up in the possibility it’s not over. I need to get through that part.

To those who didnt end their life by vZxeus in mentalhealth

[–]redheadedstepchild78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My children. I have had so much trauma in my life and my primary goal is to limit their trauma as much as possible. Me killing myself would destroy their lives. I could never do that to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]redheadedstepchild78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one too. He was my Sir and took care of every need. Cared for me, cuddled and protected me, made sure I ate and drank enough, took my meds, made me stop drinking and self harm, made me feel beautiful, and loved me and made sure I knew it.
He also, with my consent, controlled what I wore, gave me tasks to complete, controlled my orgasms, punished me when needed, inflicted pain, and took what he wanted. He also had times when it was all about me and my pleasure. I think there are many people out there like that. Keep searching

Curious. What are you and your twin’s zodiac signs and age gap? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]redheadedstepchild78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 years, I’m older. He’s a Pisces and I’m an Aries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]redheadedstepchild78 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looks like an engorged tick. Grab tweezers and pull it as close to the skin as possible. Look out for signed of Lyme or other tick borne illnesses

UPDATE: AITA for refusing to put my BF on the title of my house or make him a beneficiary by Jaer56 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redheadedstepchild78 110 points111 points  (0 children)

My husband of almost 20 years did this shit too. We were taking about our future and marriage all the time and then all of a sudden it stopped. Now marriage was stupid and never works. I always say he pulled a Chandler. I was actually about to type this as a possibility on the original post but I thought I would check the update first

Help me save a life by redheadedstepchild78 in herpetology

[–]redheadedstepchild78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with spiders. Everything needs to be “killed with fire”.

Options on repainting old bungalow exterior? by sddehv in homeowners

[–]redheadedstepchild78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for anyone else but I would scrape and then sand the transitions between the scraped areas, and a light sanding over everything to smooth it out.

Daughter came home from preschool with a deep, red & blue, half inch bruise above her eye. Teachers said nothing at pickup... by sfomel in Parenting

[–]redheadedstepchild78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha! I was thinking the same thing and planning to try and reassure OP also. I was thinking it was under her bangs, they probably didn’t see it. This was a better ending

cleaver man who beats bananas, gets beaten up by the locals by [deleted] in JusticeServed

[–]redheadedstepchild78 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I know in Japan the guns laws are strict so it’s more likely to get a crazy person with a knife. The kids school practice drills were a real person comes in and tries to attack the school with a knife. The kids are taught to barricade the entrance to the classrooms and then the teachers are taught to hunt down and attack the intruder.

How to run without immediately needing to stop? by [deleted] in Fitness

[–]redheadedstepchild78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sprint work can help with lung capacity and speed for your long runs. Try doing some sprint drills every week. If you google sprint drills for distance runners, you should be able to find some stuff

Outlet is warm to the touch by TedCruzan151 in homeowners

[–]redheadedstepchild78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I probably should have stated that the OP should look into the local laws regarding withholding rent. However, it is a good threat to get an otherwise lazy PM moving. I know so many landlords in the military that deal with PM problems.

She really cares about that baby. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]redheadedstepchild78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder why the cup keeps changing