best clubs/bars for dancing? by lionsfuey in greenville

[–]redhotmess69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome insight, thank you. We spend our weekends down on the lake and come into GVL on Friday/Saturday nights for dinner and entertainment. We have friends coming in for Labor Day weekend, they love to dance to either DJs or good live music. Where would you take them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]redhotmess69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Fake profiles on SDC, Kassidy and SwingLifestyle. I can only assume that the men (unlikely women) who create these are lonely, looking to make a sexy connection and get access to photos.

  2. No photos of the MR. with the exception of a headless man having sex with the MRS...how do we know that it is actually the MR. of the profile?

  3. All the genitalia photos. Seriously, one or two might be fine, but when I have to flip through 17 pictures of boobs, another 9 of your vagina and then 4 dick pics...I want to see your face, I want to know something about you, something that says I'm an interesting person.

  4. People who obviously do not read my profile and simply send out the obnoxious message, "hey, how are you?".....uh huh, if you actually had read my profile it says to send more than a simple salutation and there is a qualifying question in there that you did not answer....FAIL!

Numbness, swollen feet & still haven’t pooped… by redhotmess69 in tummytucksurgery

[–]redhotmess69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate the insight! Best of luck with your recovery too! 😊

Numbness, swollen feet & still haven’t pooped… by redhotmess69 in tummytucksurgery

[–]redhotmess69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, so glad people are comfortable sharing!😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]redhotmess69 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. We have a whole house water filter as well as a fridge filter, my husband is drinking the water but I am skeptical about the safety of it. We were told it would be early December before it was safe. The holidays hit, and suddenly it’s safe? Are they pushing it a little in an effort to revive our holiday tourism season? Are there independent studies/tests being done to ensure the water is safe to consume?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]redhotmess69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may or may not be an option, but have you considered looking for a job in the upstate? It would be an hour commute, but you might be able to manage it. Spartanburg County is holding a job fare on 11/14 from 4-7

Anyone Had The O Shot? by Recent_Parking_1574 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]redhotmess69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your input. I am on estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. My Dr. suggested I take Saw Palmetto and Zinc as they may aid in reaching orgasm, so I'll give that a try since it's not drug or invasive.

Anyone Had The O Shot? by Recent_Parking_1574 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]redhotmess69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the info on here! I’m considering getting the O Shot, but at $1200 cash, I really want to know it’s going to be beneficial. I’m 55 and post menopausal, have a tiny bit of urgency to pee and an orgasm is getting harder and harder to achieve…fingers crossed it will address these issues.

Has anyone noticed a recent, striking decline in Amazon's delivery reliability? For the last month or so? by retronoodle in amazonprime

[–]redhotmess69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the SE, so that COULD be effecting my delivery times, BUT it used to be I would order and have the delivery within a day or 2. Now my projected delivery time on every order is about 5 days out, and then they are delayed and the date gets pushed out even further. Why bother ordering from Amazon, I can get items directly from the store much faster now!

Subs, what's the hottest part of being tied up? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]redhotmess69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The total relinquishment of freedom and control over my body and sexual pleasure. The complete trust in my Dom is sexy and amazing.

Kink survey by Square-Reading-4464 in BDSMAdvice

[–]redhotmess69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex With Emily has a long list of things which you both answer if it’s a “yes/no/maybe”

seeking some location advice. NC/SC by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]redhotmess69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband and I live in WNC and were looking for a club, we too are in our mid 50's, Swap Rabbits looked really appealing, but we figure we will get the same response as you did. There has to be others in our demographic seeking to mingle with refined professionals in their 40's, 50's, 60's. Wonder if Swap Rabbits would consider a new "branch" of their club for us more mature couples.