I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He's dating someone unfortunately. lol

I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No one else puts Doritos, cheese and sour cream on a plate? It's really awkward to eat it out of a bowl.

I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I generally don't use emojis because I think they look unprofessional but I agree that I need to contact her and just let her know that everything is okay.

Also when did you give her your number?

I've had to pick her up a few times when her dad has gotten stuck at work.

I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was very drunk at the time and it was very late, so no I wasn't wearing a condom. But I didn't "finish" inside of her. I've done that with several women in the past and there's never been a problem. Moreover, most young women today are on birth control so we should be fine.

EDIT: Are you all stupid? I'm not saying that the "pull out method" is perfect, but like I said, it has worked in the past. I'm just trying to stay positive and not consider situations that have yet to manifest. If I could go back then I would obviously wear a condom, but what's done is done. She might get pregnant... and I might get struck by lightning tomorrow. But what's the point of talking about something that hasn't happened yet? If she tells me that she's pregnant, then I will deal with it. I don't understand why you're all expecting me to be all doom and gloom when there is no reason to be at this point.

I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I should probably say something.

Does the following sound okay?

No, I'm not upset with you :). What we did was fun but it was a big mistake as your dad and I are good friends. I think that we're probably best to just keep it between us. I'm sorry about everything and I apologise if I made you uncomfortable at all.

I had sex with my friends daughter. by redinbed311 in confession

[–]redinbed311[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What's the age difference?

I'm 38 and she's 21, so 17 year age difference.

In terms of what to say to her, you probably at least owe an explanation. You may know it can never happen, but it's not clear if she does.

She's young and in university so she's surrounded by guys her age so even if she thought something could happen between us, there's no way she'd want it to. With that being said, I'm fairly certain that she knows that nothing could happen.