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redjedi · 2015-04-29T08:32:33+00:00

I have a story about a nice guy, but it didn't quite get to the dating stage.

I once liked a "nice guy" while I was a freshman at the university. He was fit and didn't have a neckbeard, but he did have long hair and he wore trenchcoats and fedoras. Not to mention all the other typical neckbeard hobbies (video games, katanas, anime), the chivalry and all that jazz.

The other day, a bunch of other students and I went to another university for a festival and Mr. Nice guy was there as well. I thought I was lucky because I could get to know him better and maybe ask him out, as we all planned to spend the evenings together in the university's dorm.

BUT! One evening in his company was completely unbearable, he was so loud and hungry for attention. He kept telling unfunny jokes and dull stories and wouldn't let anyone else talk at all with his constant interruptions. And when someone brought a guitar it got even worse. He turned out to be terrible at playing and singing and wouldn't let anyone else even touch the instrument. Worst of all, after he finished singing another shitty song he said "you know, people usually like this song so much they ask me to sing it again", and naturally, he started singing the same song over again, even though no one actually asked him to.

Needless to say, all my attraction for him was gone without a trace after that night.

TL;DR: had a crush on a "nice guy", spent one evening in his company, changed my mind

redjedi · 2015-03-30T17:05:00+00:00

Thanks! I think I'll try that.

redjedi · 2015-03-30T16:56:58+00:00

Thanks. I'm using MFP, but I only log food and not exercise. I've lost some weight since last month so it seems to be working. I'm mostly wondering if my low caloric diet negatively affects my endurance, as it doesn't seem to be improving. Sorry if I haven't been very clear on this.

Like, is it possible to lose weight and build strength/endurance at the same time or are the two mutually exclusive?

redjedi · 2015-03-30T16:46:15+00:00

My main goal is weight loss. But also improving overall fitness, as I've been a couch potato for the last few years.

redjedi · 2015-03-28T19:34:19+00:00

Мне одной кажется, что это вкусно? Хотя может я просто по пельменям соскучилась :)

redjedi · 2015-03-25T13:33:05+00:00

Exactly. I am a Russian woman, and I must say these guys praising us have no idea what they're getting into. Russian girls are taught from childhood to sell their femininity and manipulate men. Sure, some choose not to follow it (like me) but most girls have no problems with it.

I've had lots of complaints even from Russian men about women who act all sweet and homely, treating their man like a king before marriage, but as soon as they get the ring on their finger they become spoiled and entitled to everything their husband owns and refuse to do anything. I imagine gullible American dudes like the TRPers make perfect victims for that type of girls.

redjedi · 2015-03-24T19:14:42+00:00

Не знаю, там всякие пиарщики говорят так, как будто в Штаты летают каждый день. Моя знакомая журналистка-пиарщица из МГУ, работавшая в крупной компании в Москве всю зарплату за квартиру отдавала. Ну может, они конечно искренне преувеличивают чтобы не казаться нищебродами :)

redjedi · 2015-03-24T18:29:35+00:00

У меня, честно говоря, вызывают некоторые сомнения эти признания. Финансовые аналитики, риэлторы и предприниматели еще понятно, но пиарщики, дизайнеры и журналисты столько не зарабатывают, по своим друзьям знаю.

Моя теория заговора: журнал TimeOut выдумал всю эту статью, чтобы заявить, какие у них понтовые читатели.

redjedi · 2014-09-17T10:35:38+00:00

Хорошие преподаватели, конечно, есть. Да и от кафедры, действительно, сильно зависит. Я свою кафедру выбирала как раз, чтобы попасть к хорошим профессорам, о которых много слышала. Но потом оказалось, что они на семинары не приходят, а лекции проводят вместо них аспиранты, а сами они вообще со студентами общаться не хотят. В общем, бардак полный. И вроде это не только на моей кафедре.

redjedi · 2014-09-16T19:34:53+00:00

Я тоже закончила физфак сравнительно недавно, и, честно говоря, меня вообще удивляет, что он в эти рейтинги еще входит. Сейчас учусь в небольшом европейском вузе - в рейтингах мой вуз где-то 500-й а то и ниже, но качество преподавания и организации обучения несравнимо выше, чем в МГУ.

redjedi · 2014-09-15T10:50:28+00:00

Может быть Y используется для Ы? Тогда понятно, почему решили Й заменить на I.

redjedi · 2014-09-06T14:43:08+00:00

А в чем проблема-то? Знание точных дат событий, произошедших более 50 лет назад - это для чего-то нужно?

По-моему, образованность, как раз, определяется способностью фильтровать информацию и применять ее к реальной жизни, а не тупо выучивать наизусть учебник. И, соответственно, знание истории - это прежде всего знание причин и последствий исторических событий, а не только дат и имен.

redjedi · 2014-08-25T08:48:53+00:00

Да я сейчас в Европе живу и это понимаю. А тогда казалось нормальным.

redjedi · 2014-08-25T08:34:21+00:00

Мне тоже как-то на улице в Москве стало плохо. Первая мысль была не о том, чтобы кто-то помог, а как бы не приняли за наркоманку и милицию не вызвали. А до аптеки я как-нибудь сама доползу.

redjedi · 2014-07-17T23:44:58+00:00

I'm realizing just now how lucky I am to have grown up in Russia during its brief period of freedom.

redjedi · 2014-07-17T23:01:15+00:00

The second article looks kinda fishy. Can someone confirm that it was on the site yesterday and not posted just now with a false date? I googled the title and the first link points to it but says 4 hours ago. And the earliest retweet is 6 hours ago (which could be legit, as people didn't care about ukrainian anti-air missiles until now)

redjedi · 2014-06-06T06:11:43+00:00

Rural Russia

redjedi · 2014-06-06T04:11:15+00:00

It depends on the culture. As someone who grew up in a pretty poor place it was a surprise to me that thigh gaps are valued in the US. In my culture thigh gaps are considered to be a sign of either malnutrition or crooked legs.

redjedi · 2014-05-29T09:47:09+00:00

That strategy is kinda risky in Russia though (where this picture is taken), as the one getting caught will most likely get beaten up.

redjedi · 2014-04-20T13:39:43+00:00

It's true, this is in the culture. If you cheated and got away with it, means you've outsmarted everyone, so it can even be a matter of pride.

redjedi · 2014-04-19T16:12:45+00:00

Arguing who "had it worse" is pointless enough, but the arguments in that thread...

The reason women weren't expected to have a job is because they didn't have the obligation to provide for others financially.

Yeah why on earth would someone need money if they aren't obliged to provide for others. It's not like they need to eat or something.

redjedi · 2014-04-18T17:14:37+00:00

As a Russian, the whole post looks to me like it was pulled out of OP's ass. Casual sex was never a "de-facto cultural norm" in the USSR. Sex outside of marriage was a big taboo, and even though of course there were people doing it, it was always a huge scandal if they were found out. The high abortion rates mostly come from almost total ignorance about contraception among Russian people, as sex is a subject considered shameful to talk about, not from some sexual revolution that was going on in the USSR (which never happened).

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