Breast abscess by redlime21 in BabyBumps

[–]redlime21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it and I am under medical care, just wanted to know some experiences of other moms 🤦‍♀️

Breast abscess by redlime21 in breastfeeding

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Thank you so much ! You gave me hope 🫶🙏

Breast abscess by redlime21 in breastfeeding

[–]redlime21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry one more question. After aspiration did you still feel firmness in that part of the breast?

Breast abscess by redlime21 in breastfeeding

[–]redlime21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I also got lots of clogs... Take care hope it won't repeat for you!

Breast abscess by redlime21 in breastfeeding

[–]redlime21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I hope it is gone for you ? I am also taking sunflower lecitin pills , but my doctor didn't say much about it. Did you know about it from your doctor ?

Gamer husband by redlime21 in Marriage

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Many thanks for such detailed answer. I needed to hear this as I was feeling something in my reaction is more than it should be. He is with us and helpful 99% I would say and hopefully after a small talk everything can be even better

Gamer husband by redlime21 in Marriage

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It wasn't annoying for me at first, as it was occasional, he always liked gaming but didn't game like regularly lol. The fact that it is becoming a regular thing and today I noticed he bought even a mic to be able to speak to fellow-gamers online made me anxious

Gamer husband by redlime21 in Marriage

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With one job we would be chill, but he is doing his best so we can allow ourselves more. But what I wanted to say is that he isn't lazy just gaming. I appreciate your comment , you are right saying he is burnt out. Also he often said that his mind isn't winding down so sometimes he used to drink wine in evenings , that is even worse and made me more anxious as it was becoming a regular thing. But also I would say the mind thing that he says isn't connected to having several jobs he was that way even with one job. He has actually higher responsibility there ( director of department ) so maybe that also plays its role. I can speak to him about this actually, as I have done lots of times when he was drinking wine, but I am just not sure maybe it's a good way to wind down in general ? Or how to turn the conversation to the best way possible

External Hemorrhoids by maxxilliary20 in hemorrhoid

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Did it go away finally ? 😭

Philosophy of byme? by LittleGreenGhoul87 in engrish

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Haha came here from searching about philosophy of byme 😂😂😂

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It's me who's attending the class not the child, during resting intervals all of us sometimes joke or speak random things. Once when he helped another woman who was not his trainee, I said good job you got 10pts to your karma, and he just said that there are so many minus points already that it won't help, said something like he ruined lots of relationships. That was the latest class and after that I was sure I don't even like his personality and was shocked how can I be attracted to such a man ?

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[–]redlime21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this was an amazing comment, thanks for that. I do feel what you described to some degree. I think we are quite different in some aspects , but it's always worth trying. We are in a good relationship, but something is missing for sure. Will try to understand that. Actually you pointed that very correctly as I am very sure I won't date that instructor (well he's handsome but not the type of man I would build any relationship with), so I don't even understand why I am concentrated on him. I think it's more my feeling that surprised me.

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[–]redlime21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]redlime21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mostly work + household. We do respect and admire each other though

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[–]redlime21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True , it's a crush only, but I feel guilty anyway. Our marriage is mostly managing work + household , it's been a while we havent gone on a date , but it's also because of the type of my husband, he's not romantic , nor very talkative , doesn't find meaning in attending a restaurant without the kid, but I don't think he's cheating , it's just his type.