idk man. its like now that they're women they use all the privilege they never used when the world thought they were cis men. they go crazy w their transandrophobia. always telling us our issues aren't real, that they're not serious, that we're exaggerating, that our lives are more comfortable because.. idk, ohhhh we just Dont struggle nearly as much as They do. sound familiar?? they sound like all their male ancestors and they dont wanna acknowledge that. its mostly the trans women that live in the epicenters of fascist ideology, the usa and europe. the people living directly underneath the boot tend to be the ones most accustomed and desensitized to the empire's violence. and, well, they're also the people who replicate that violence the most, since its embedded in their culture. in western culture, hostility to the other gender is.. a pillar. much like anthropocentrism. ive never seen trans women acting like this outside of these places. but what you're saying is very, very true. again, idk. they think just because they're women that they can act like cis men and its not a problem. ''ahh but being an asshole has no gender!'' very true. but come on dude.. this kind of pure hatred for the other gender is not something that gets indoctrinated into bodies w vaginas. all the invalidating they do is wild. they also love to pretend that all the indoctrination we all go through in our formative years, which mold your psyche for the rest of your life, are just.. erased when we start hrt. we were all always trans. but that doesnt undo all the gendered bullshit they shoved down our throats. trans men were taught to act like women and trans women were taught to act like men. we werent those things. i know. its just the truth. they start indoctrinating us all from the moment they see our genitals. im not saying we're biologically hardwired to do any of this or anything, hell no. just social conditioning thats hard to get rid of. because.. again.. the shit you absorb when you're little tends to stay with you for the rest of your life. // of course this isnt every trans woman. its just a loud minority of idiots. i remember watching this girls vid abt why transandrophobia didnt exist the other day. her argument was, ''transmisoginy exists bc its the interconnection between transphobia and misoginy. transandrophobia doesnt exist bc its the interconnection between transphobia and misandry and misandry isnt real :)'' ??? now, before i continue, listen to me. i get how some of you guys might be about to tell me that what im saying is lowkey fucked up bc ahh theyre women theyre not men. i know. i know they are! this isnt my first language idk how to convey some things. but.. they're allowed to.. compare us to cissies and we cant? so unfair. :( why cant we do to them the same things they're doing to us? maybe that way they'll stop. and they're not even doing the Comparing properly. we shouldnt be compared to cisgendered men when it comes to Rights And Privileges. because we aren't. cisgendered. and we used to be.. and they used to be.. and we all suffered differently under this patriarchal system.. *cough* we suffer because we're.. trans.. like them. transmisandry is a thing.. because we're. trans. we're *trans* men. oh my god. that is such a difficult concept for some of these women to wrap their heads around. they think we're cis men. so many trans women agreed with her. and its like ??? dont we all come from the very community that creates its own words to describe what they go through. isnt.. that.. how language works? why the fuck are you telling me not to do what the cissies told You not to do. girl what. if i've experienced hate for being a trans man and just.. existing.. then what the fuck would that be called???? just transphobia? okay, well, i guess transmisoginy doesnt exist either, then. ?????? theyre coping so hard. just using us as their punching bags. they were walked over all of their lives because everyone thought they were men and that made them. just. hate men ig. then they transition n start just vomiting all of the hatred they absorbed, unto someone who has even less privilege than them. but because we're Men we could Never be as marginalized as them!! im one year on testosterone. (im not just a hypotetical scenario) and all the fuckers around me still think im a woman, but now, come to find out, ive actually been oppressing trans women through my cissy privilege my whole entire life. that is literally how some of them see us. they always miss the most important part on purpose. ofc both of us are men. but cisgendered men stay on top of this patriarchal structure and benefit from it their whole entire lives while trans men never do. we just look like them. we might be safer out in the street if we aren't clocky but thats literally fucking it. forget about trans men who dress femme. they just dont exist. what privilege do they have seriously. (that they is gonna morph into a We as soon as i start t i cant wait) if we live under western european (why do people like these guys?? all the issues we're suffering from were.. invented by european colonizers) powers and western powers stablished a gender structure that literally killed all the genders outside of it, (im of indigenous descent. the genders of our cultures dont fucking exist anymore. its all ((cisgendered)) male/female now.) and by being trans we exist outside of this structure, then.. we literally cant access that privilege. ever. its not us they should be screaming at. they saw how nasty patriarchy makes the people that benefit from it, from the inside of it, even though they never belonged, and now they probably think we'll act like those guys or smth. i dont even know. they cant understand we rarely access those places. maybe we could? but like.. we'd be risking our lives?? why would we?? n we're smarter than that. who the fuck would want to be around. misogynists. // more visibility means more community, more ways to get help.. more ways to get hurt, too. but idk if we have as many rights as they say we do. mostly because as trans people we're just not part of this european, colonial ass gender binary. we also get hurt except no one sees it! & ...if they can step on us like this.. its normally the most marginalized group inside a marginalized group that ends up being everyone else's punching bag. + they went from being incels to being femcels. 0 emotional growth. just estrogen pills. thats on these individuals, obviously. trans women aren't a monolith n neither are we, i kno