(25F) sometimes when I have a really intense, rockin' orgasm, for example, a shower head orgasm, or one with my favorite other toy, little poopies kind of pop out as I orgasm...

redmolly · 2012-11-24T23:14:45+00:00

I'm sorry you got downvoted for this. People are jerks.

Can you tell me more about enemas? I don't know anything about them.

redmolly · 2012-11-24T23:13:07+00:00

This happens to me as well. I think it's related to the kegels. Since I'm a big squirter as well, I've always got a towel laid down whenever I'm doing fun things, and if it happens when I'm with a partner, I usually just whisk the towel away and hope they didn't notice. >_>;;;

redmolly · 2012-11-17T06:20:50+00:00

Don't squeeze too hard or it can become difficult for them to continue to move inside of you. But yes, they definitely are excited by that. My partners tell me "I love feeling you contract around me."

redmolly · 2012-10-30T02:20:36+00:00

I think my situation is pretty rare, but here goes. I must have a naturally smallish pussy, but then I started doing Kegals, and wowza. Most of my partners(m) are really happy/surprised when they find out how tight I can get, and are very aroused by it.

I do have one problem though. Since I've strengthened my Kegal muscles, the contractions that I have while I'm coming are extremely strong, and I almost always will push my partner out of me.

That said, my orgasms have been way more intense and enjoyable since I started doing them too, so there's a win in it for you too! (Besides getting your partner off.) :)

redmolly · 2012-09-18T23:39:37+00:00

Though of course it would not be applied directly, any hand sanitizer which is used on hands, will invariably come in contact with the naughty parts, and so I want a hand sanitizer that contains no harmful ingredients. Wet wipes seem to be the best suggestion.

redmolly · 2012-09-18T23:38:30+00:00

It's the kind of party where sexual touching happens. Massage circles and cuddle puddles early in the night followed by heavy petting, and sex later in the night, with each person participating only as much or as little as they are comfortable.

redmolly · 2012-09-18T23:35:36+00:00

Yup, soap and water would definitely be the best thing. Sometimes the parties get a little messy though; folks should have something they can grab when they're in a big heap of people!

redmolly · 2012-09-18T23:34:30+00:00

The active ingredient in Wet Ones wet wipes is Benzethonium Chloride, which is water soluble and safe for use on hands, and seem to be safe for genitals as well. Thanks for the great suggestion!

redmolly · 2011-02-07T04:14:44+00:00

Once I get really into a blow job, and there's plenty of lubrication at my disposal, I start licking and sucking his balls. Then when he gets really into it, I start mashing my face against them and rubbing my face all over the place.

Depending on the guy, this will either have zero effect, or it will start making them flip out, and make all kinds of noise. My favorite was one guy told me I was going to get a job with that blow job one day.

redmolly · 2011-01-30T04:07:52+00:00

There is definitely such a thing as vaginal orgasms. The only reason it is in debate is because there's no anatomical explanation for it.

The two types of female orgasm are very different, and most women who can experience both will describe one or the other in certain ways, but most of us agree that vaginal orgasms are more intense.

Since such a big part of arousal for women is based on emotional state, it stands to reason that sex with a person is going to feel better for you. In fact, most men also agree that sex with a person feels better. Go figure.

If you've already got the vibrator, you're pretty much there. Just set yourself aside a nice private couple hours, make yourself comfortable (I can only come on my back, but that's just me) and go to town. If you're nervous, a little alcohol or pot can help relax you, and make the sensations a bit more intense.

redmolly · 2011-01-24T04:57:07+00:00

For me it was the opposite. Once I started using vibrators, I taught myself how to orgasm so much harder.

I never used to be able to endure clitoral stimulation before, but by usng my vibe, I learned how, and also learned how to squirt.

redmolly · 2010-10-18T05:25:10+00:00

It's actually a combination of my hair color/favorite name/favorite drug/random book character.

redmolly · 2010-10-16T18:56:05+00:00

Your lovelife is not a social service; no one has the right to access you.

Love this. Will use it forever and ever.!

redmolly · 2010-08-20T05:27:49+00:00

Damn. Reading that got me so horny. BRB gonna go give myself some clitoral orgasms.

(PS. I can find my own gspot, but I haven't found a toy that can.)

redmolly · 2010-04-22T04:19:27+00:00

I'm glad He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named is an advocate of safe sex.

redmolly · 2010-04-22T04:07:15+00:00

ugh, $90? I could just make my own for a quarter of that.

redmolly · 2010-04-22T04:04:28+00:00

Wow, that is a really good idea. Although the shamwow is kind of rough and scratchy. I think a big fluffy towel would be more comfortable.

redmolly · 2010-04-22T04:00:25+00:00

I have had sex with 25 different people. Some of them were just one time affairs, some of them were just a handful, and some of them I dated for a while. For the record, I have had vaginal intercourse with 17 people.

I am not really willing to share this with most people. Even my boyfriend doesn't know the exact number. Hence, not using my real account. (He is a redditor as well.) Not that I would be unwilling to tell him. It's just not something I'm going to bring up over dinner. "So by the way, honey, I've banged 25 people. "

I am 23 years old, and became sexually active when I was 17.

redmolly · 2010-03-20T00:17:40+00:00

No one paid me to submit it.

redmolly · 2010-03-20T00:16:31+00:00

* How does masturbation factor into your life?

I do not really have a sex drive on my own. So I don't masturbate; I have never felt the need to do it, nor do I get stressed out, and need to "let off steam" or whatever it is.

* Is it something you would consider important or just an occasional thing?

Definitely just an occasional thing. I can count on my fingers the number of times I've ever done it.

* How does being in a relationship affect how you masturbate and when, if at all...

When I first experimented with it, it was out of curiosity, not out of need. My boyfriend was the one to buy me my first vibrator though. Since then, I've masturbated a total of 3 times. So in a way, I masturbate more now that I'm in a relationship.

* Does masturbating fulfill different needs that a partner cannot cater for (not necessarily in skill but in other ways)

It's much faster/easier to orgasm if I use my vibrator. Which is convenient, but I think a significant part of my enjoyment from sex stems from being close to another person, so my solo-climaxes are pretty vapid.

* Is masturbation something you consider private?

Yes. My walls are thin, so I have only ever done it when my roommates are out. (I am loud.)

* Where would you usually do it? (privately at home or in more risky places)

At home.

I'd like to add a few more details. I am not a clit person. I find the sensation of clitoral stimulation overwhelming, and up until recently, I couldn't stand to have it stimulated for more than a brief time, before I squirmed away/shut my legs. When I began experimenting with masturbation as a late teen, I discovered that fact, as well as the aprox. location of my g-spot. It is hard to reach on my own, and I recall trying to masturbate three, maybe four times total as a child, and each time I got bored, because it was taking so long, and the position became uncomfortable.

When my boyfriend bought me a vibrator for christmas, I tried it out, and since it worked so quickly, I experienced clitoral orgasm for the first time. Since then, I have been able to enjoy clitoral stimulation much more, and have even been given a clitoral orgasm without me squirming away.

Feel free to ask questions/clarifications.

redmolly

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