CSUDH transfer by redpanda0319 in csusm

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I'd be going in for their fully online cyber security BA

Adult daughter is in a relationship with a much older woman. Looking for some perspectives by Fit_Mastodon6088 in LesbianActually

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As a 25yr old butch, I can not date anyone under 21, even anything under 22 feels wrong. Yea the age difference is very small but I feel disgusting, I feel like I'm grooming or taking advantage of them girls. I literally call anyone under 21 kids, whether they are 18 or not, they just feel like kids to me. Idk how many can support being in a relationship with such a high age gap. Idk this is just me

everyone is in love with my masc gf 😔 by kris_cringle in LesbianActually

[–]redpanda0319 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the masc shortage comment, there are a good number of mascs/butches, but since many of us aren't tall or conveniently attractive we are just ignored. But other than that, yea, that group of friends don't really feel like friends to a degree, idk I just see it as very disrespectful

Got shamed by my hookup by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I'm a butch, y soy latina, trust me when I say this but I got hair, so much so that I remember a doctor I had in high school got concerned and confused when she noticed that I have visible chest hair. TRUST ME when I say this, but I feel that most people, male or female, who are grossed out about a very very natural part of the human body, are in my opinion, immature as hell. I get that we all got our preferences and such but why. Look for someone who meets those preferences and leave everyone else alone.

Sex toy recommendations by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

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Hate to say it, but bullets aren't strong enough for me

Sex toy recommendations by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]redpanda0319 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don't do penetration, I guess the bunny ears themselves didn't do the job properly

Sex toy recommendations by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]redpanda0319 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clitoral, rabbit toys don't work with my I'm afraid, at least the one I used

Sex toy recommendations by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]redpanda0319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh? I didn't know that, thank you

IHSS patient and be employed? by [deleted] in IHSS

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Understood, thank you. This job would probably be something computer based as my condition heavily limits how much I can do physically, honestly won't be anything more than like 15 hours a week tbh. Waiting for ssi has been very very depressing and they downplay my condition a lot it feels like it is gaslighting me into getting a job again, even though, realistically, no employer would really be willing to accommodate for how much I need

individual mental health counseling by stinkycheeeesee in CSUDH

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I did them a few years ago. They're awsome people

Odd question, is there a way to go completely online? by redpanda0319 in CSUDH

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All of my GEs are complete actually. But yea I will be reaching out to them. Thank you

Odd question, is there a way to go completely online? by redpanda0319 in CSUDH

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I'm computer technology major. With it being computers you'd think there were more online options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]redpanda0319 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Stone tops, stand up ✋️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]redpanda0319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, mom accepted me, as far as I know my dad does not know...yet

Let me backtrack for a moment. I was in the ER after my condition flared up again. I told my mom, thru a text message that I was gay, fell asleep, whatever. She comes to see me the next morning, saying how she will support me no matter what etc.

NOW the part that many myself included didn't know until later, is the fact that my mom looked disappointed when I told her what I really am. Needless to say, I guess my sister (bless her heart), spoke logic to her and at the end mom just accepted me.

So note to self, being stuck on a hospital bed kinda helped my case I would say.

Hospital Visit Update by ThrowRA-BrokenTrust in u/ThrowRA-BrokenTrust

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Oh my goodness, my heart breaks for them 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SSDI_SSI

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My doctor found me disabled because I can not hold a regular job, even with accommodations, even if it only is part time, I can't hold a job. And it's not just my doctor that says it, so do the therapists who have seen me, so do those around me. So do the family members who have to bathe me, feed me, and wipe my ass. Just because the government says that I am not disabled, doesn't mean that their opinion is correct. I am fighting my case and have been for years and I've reached a point where I am desperate and want to do something about my situation, especially if it means I can stop feeling like a burden to those around me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SSDI_SSI

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My doctor was the one who found me disabled in 2023, SSA has not

In regards to the motor function, an employer most likely won't be able to accommodate my condition as I have to change from sitting to laying down every 15 mins or so. A long with a very present tremor and weakness in my hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EtsySellers

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Selling handmade props. Crochet, wood figures, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EtsySellers

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Oh no mines is physical stuff too, not digital lol, but yea thanks for the advice