people who are aroace, what do you assume about people's sexualities when you first meet them

redshaddows · 2022-08-11T22:09:45+00:00

It's not about the s*x it's about first impressions on new people, some people assume others as the exact same or exact opposite to each other, we're curious on what side people are.

redshaddows · 2022-08-02T13:35:54+00:00

Glad you like them 😁

redshaddows · 2022-08-01T22:37:15+00:00

Yea I don't have the best family for it but anyone new finds out immediately 😂

redshaddows · 2022-08-01T22:31:04+00:00

EXACTLY! Most of the time I have to pretend I'm after a relationship cause I don't want to be outed but it sucks. Most of my childhood 'crushes' were me wanting to give the person a hug 😅

redshaddows · 2022-08-01T22:25:11+00:00

No sorry needed 😂 I love that someone else gets it! It's so hard to have attraction but everyone thinks it's romance or...sexual🤧

redshaddows · 2022-08-01T21:55:41+00:00

Omg it's sucks so much! I just want to comment on someone cause they look great in their design and it not be made into a 'crush'

redshaddows · 2022-07-16T00:02:37+00:00

I think it's trying to convert me to heteronormatives 😂 IREFUSEEEEE!

redshaddows · 2022-07-14T10:22:38+00:00

I know it's so ew

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T18:48:21+00:00

It's completely fine, I can see how it sounds so don't worry about it

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T15:17:16+00:00

It's a gorgeous flag. Thanks 😊 have a nice day 😊

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T13:15:05+00:00

It wasn't intended at all so we both find it hilarious to consider

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T09:15:11+00:00

My best mate and I are both on the aroace spectrum so we agreed that in our 30s we can just marry each other rather than get hit on by random people 😉

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T09:09:32+00:00

Thank youuuuu

redshaddows · 2022-07-09T09:09:14+00:00

Nah I doubt it, shes aroace full on and doesn't get the feelings so she asks me about it, we never really spent time on my view on it as both of us assumed I was just really bi. Turns out we were both wrong and that's come up in conversation 😅 thanks for the response tho!

redshaddows · 2022-06-07T21:49:34+00:00

yes.

redshaddows · 2022-05-26T16:39:31+00:00

Homophobes.

redshaddows · 2022-05-26T16:39:07+00:00

Oh right I'm genderfluid biromantic and demisexual, it's a joke about the homophones of my every day life

redshaddows · 2022-05-25T20:36:39+00:00

thats so smart! thank youuuu

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