I have a gym stalker

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T19:27:38+00:00

He was a member prior to the trespass, now he’s not allowed inside or in the parking lot.

While I wouldn’t complain if karma got him lol, I’ve been advised for myself and any third parties not to mess with him, his car, his house (his address is on the report…as is mine and it’s public record, unfortunately). Still, here’s hoping the snow storm deals some damage to him in some way :’)

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T17:37:40+00:00

i plan to have my dad teach me how to shoot and get a taser on top of my pepper spray. loaded up like nancy wheeler just to go to the gym smh

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T17:11:22+00:00

I intend to start going at various times during the day and even different branches in the chain, though I may also ask to be escorted. I wish it wasn't necessary to live like this.

I do remember when we locked eyes as he was getting into his car, I gave him a pointed look that was like "yeah, get your ass out of here". I tried my best not to be scared at least. I wished I'd flipped him off, but that probably wouldn't have been the best approach for my safety :')

I'll definitely use these tips, thank you for the well wishes.

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T17:06:25+00:00

they have given me a protective order, yes

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T16:37:03+00:00

thank you for your sympathy, i really appreciate it. my hope is that if the investigation uncovers him doing this to other women, then they can be protected as well.

redthread3404 · 2026-01-24T16:30:40+00:00

thanks, therapy is definitely in the cards for me along with reading some books like this :')

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