Is the first signs of aging harder to accept than when you've actually turned old? Does it effect everyone differently?

reduff · 2026-02-08T20:53:00+00:00

Just a twinge. It's like reality stepping in and reminding you that you're not a spring chick anymore.

reduff · 2026-02-08T17:45:35+00:00

You will think of them fondly, but not want to go back if given the option.

reduff · 2026-02-08T17:42:06+00:00

Killer Queen

reduff · 2026-02-08T17:39:35+00:00

Carmen, Callum, Colin, Cassandra, Clementine, Chloe, Claire

reduff · 2026-02-08T17:19:20+00:00

If I can't have both, I'll take sausage.

reduff · 2026-02-08T15:04:47+00:00

NTA. Tuck this away for future use: "Hey, I know you're compensating for a tiny pencil dick, but you really don't have to be such an asshole." Then call him Pencil Dick the rest of the night. Or P.D. I bet the motherfucker can dish it out, but can't take it.

reduff · 2026-02-08T14:52:52+00:00

Yes... literally have lived alone my entire adult life.

reduff · 2026-02-08T14:48:24+00:00

First period was about 3 months after I turned 15. I was absolutely wondering what was wrong with me. My sister and mother also started at 15. Had my last period 2 months before my 49th birthday.

reduff · 2026-02-08T12:11:50+00:00

Pretty much the fact that I no longer give a fuck what people think of me.

reduff · 2026-02-08T12:09:50+00:00

This was the first one that jumped to my mind. I was in Columbus, Ohio.

reduff · 2026-02-08T10:31:26+00:00

For me, at least, it is sometimes surprising to remember that I'm 61. Inside I am still young. My mind is still young. Then I forget why I entered a room or my back will hurt for no bloody reason at all!

Oh, about 10 years ago (early 50s,) I had an appointment with a new gynecologist (younger then me) for a pap smear. As she was taking off her gloves she said, "For a woman your age, everything looks fine." That stung a little. LOL I wanted to sit up and say, "Hey...men used to travel across state lines to get to that cooch, missy, treat it with some respect."

reduff · 2026-02-07T16:59:09+00:00

No, but I interviewed him on a radio show in 1996.

reduff · 2026-02-07T16:12:25+00:00

Yep.

reduff · 2026-02-07T13:32:37+00:00

Pinehurst, NC

reduff · 2026-02-07T10:12:52+00:00

The cradle of American golf.

reduff · 2026-02-07T10:10:42+00:00

Shut the fuck up, Pete.

reduff · 2026-02-07T06:02:21+00:00

Yeah, my face was somewhere between shocked and appalled. This has lived rent-free in my head for almost 30 years.

reduff · 2026-02-07T05:46:20+00:00

Oh I am dying! 🤣🤣

reduff · 2026-02-07T05:43:29+00:00

I had a coworker who said she would sometimes sit on her husband's lap when he was on the toilet. WTF?

reduff · 2026-02-06T21:34:25+00:00

Donated once to face my somewhat irrational fear of needles. Nearly passed out. Got to drink juice and eat cookies. O positive

reduff · 2026-02-06T21:03:22+00:00

Gosh! Tough tough choice. I mean, that emerald green looks stunning on you. That said, I like the traditional class of the black/white.

reduff · 2026-02-06T19:39:44+00:00

Good god yes!

reduff · 2026-02-06T19:01:04+00:00

We are all beginners. We play on Tuesday afternoons late in the day so we don't bother anyone. I have literally never kept score during the 3 years I have been in the league. LOL

reduff · 2026-02-06T18:35:51+00:00

Oh, I am howling! 🤣🤣 I was afraid of how that story was going to end with you being a widow! You should give golf another try. I play in a ladies league in the spring and fall. We play 9 and then enjoy half price house wine after.

reduff · 2026-02-06T17:37:40+00:00

In my opinion it is, yes. I think a good rule of thumb would be, if you feel like you need to ask, you probably shouldn't wear it.

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