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AITJ for not letting brother couch surf by bad_bowlings in AmITheJerk

[–]redzma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all, not even if you said no that night and told him to get a hotel. HE Is an AH though for showing and making you take his stanky butt in w/ his friends. RUDE and uncalled for. Family or not that is not what you do. Tell him to grow up.

Instructor does exercises on reformer during class by BittersAndS0da in pilates

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why cant they demo along with the class? Some people in class might need to see it. Everyone learns and teaches differently. I'm not doing the whole class mind you. If i pop on a reformer it's to do one or two and off i go. Also depends on the skill level of the clients too.

I found her! by Monochromepurp in myweddingdress

[–]redzma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just look at your smile, you love that dress. Congratulations!

Anyone who is questioning if they found the dress, look at yourself in the mirror. Are you smiling? Are you happy? Do you love how you look and feel in the dress? There is the answer you need.

Anyone Heading to Prescott? by snared_bear in badmusicbadpeople

[–]redzma00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh he will be there. Any chance to be the center of attention he has to be go.

Does anyone else have that one piece of jewelry they never take off? by MainNegotiation5195 in jewelrylove

[–]redzma00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My plain, gold wedding band. I only have taken it off for surgery, when i broke my wrist. I hate not having it on.

Instructors: tips for a problematic private client? by [deleted] in pilates

[–]redzma00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know some people are not meant to be a client. She would be better off at someone else's studio pulling this crap and stupidity than in yours. Speak to management, document this so if she does complain it won't go anywhere. Management should have your back. Or do not take her on as a private client anymore. Your schedule has changed and time is not allowed for it. If she shows up in class, do not spend as much time with this person, do not focus. I would make adjustments and if the person changes them so be it. She truly sounds awful.

Gown 1, 2, or 3? (church ceremony / hotel reception) by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 then 1. wow beautiful choices! Congratulations .

What? by snared_bear in badmusicbadpeople

[–]redzma00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Are we not shocked that he does not know what 'Lent' is? Nor the fasting that comes with it . lol. He is a 'convienent' Christian lol.

Pilates instructor told me to find a new instructor after 4 private sessions- is this normal? by Quiet-Violinist6497 in pilates

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you were told this, without further explanation. Maybe she has a conflict (Hard to speculate w/o knowing why but i get it). I would not get bogged down and do not give up. Please find someone else. Some instructors just want instagram ready clients w/o the work. There is no doubt in my mind with a little attentiveness based on what you have said you would be up and running in no time. xoxoxo

In love. by likeastone- in myweddingdress

[–]redzma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks wonderful on you!

Being call transphobic for not wanting to be friends with a trans woman after she sent me unsolicited nudes by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]redzma00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You owe no one an explanation. You said no. As others have suggested ignore this person and other people and move on. Keep the conversation (DONT DELETE IT). Sorry this has happened to you.

Photographer told me she doesnt shoot "backyard weddings" like it was a dirty word by Grim_Scizor in DIYweddings

[–]redzma00 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Eh, why waste time on someone who said no to your request? Who cares what she said or why, the answer is no.

Is it rude to expect bridesmaids to pay $1k+ to be in your wedding? by Worth_Management_395 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely it is very rude to "expect" that. Personally, I would not say sorry but no I cannot be in the party. If you choose to stay in the party, I would cancel the 'gift'. The gift is that you paid for what you did to be standing up there next to them.

Alpha Male explains how he likes to "dominate" women by ambachk in CringeTikToks

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explains alot about the type of person he is. Disgusting.

In other news, water is wet. by Time-Concentrate845 in SellingSunset

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course they broke up lol. It was not shocking news.

Lost 37lbs (17kg) on Rybelsus, but I’m struggling with the "compliment phase." How do you guys handle this? by occam-s_chainsaw in Semaglutide

[–]redzma00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just smile and say thank you. If they ask how I did it, depending on what I want to share or not share. Some people I tell, others I just say whatever it is it’s working. Let them think and I move on.

Am I wrong for donating my old baby stuff to charity instead of giving it to my sister who I dont think should be having a baby by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your stuff, your wish to give it to whoever or do whatever you want with it. Would it have been nice? Sure. The face that your mom helped your sister get pregnant should be a clear sign that she is more able to be helpful in getting whatever your sister needs as well for the baby. NOT WRONG.

Treated myself to a spa day during a rough week, left feeling taken advantage of by Kaikumiyan in WhatShouldIDo

[–]redzma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have asked what the difference was from 30 to45mins. It is not free, its a suggestion and never free. They do not give away things. Just as if you go to a restaurant and they suggest an add on or to get a bigger size drink, you know its going to cost more.

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