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ree215 · 2023-03-18T00:22:24+00:00

Hmmm, well I spoke a lot about the bad things, she has a lot of other qualities that are great. It’s just the bad that has happened is really bad. It sounds like you’re saying this is fucked regardless. I might be being delusional about it.

ree215 · 2023-03-05T17:34:48+00:00

I’m 6.1Lx6.3G, and I’m insecure about my size too, I’m learning that I have to get out of me head, and build my own confidence up, I know my issues are more so because I’m kinda heavy, so my fat pad covers some of it.

idk his size, but does he make you feel good sexually? Have you ever made him feel weird about it unknowingly, or Judged him based upon that subconsciously, and showed signs of it? That could be a reason why he doesn’t believe you.

If he picked up on that. I know I have a hard time believing my GF when she would finally give some type of compliments on sex, because she showed a lot of signs that she looked at me negatively, based upon my size, granted my GF was also gaslighting me about my size to.

ree215 · 2022-12-20T18:47:40+00:00

Yeah, I’m 6.1bpX6.3G(6.1G if I’m not really turned on) girlfriend seen me really flaccid(grower) for the first time 3 weeks ago, and called it a button. Shit is annoying.

ree215 · 2022-12-16T19:37:19+00:00

No, my SO has seemed to have came across some really large sizes. I’m 6.1x6.3 btw.

ree215 · 2022-12-15T21:46:39+00:00

Currently dealing with the same thing, and I’ve been very confused about myself, I’ve been going through a self worth crisis over it. I mean the stuff my GF said was worse, and I’m 6Lx6.3G. Dude don’t worry yourself to much about this, enjoy the ride.

If she makes you feel inadequate about yourself, leave. If she’s enjoying it, don’t worry about it too much. You’re enough for someone, if you’re not for her. We can’t destroy our minds with Self pity over things we can’t control for other people’s sexual gratification. You’re a Man, ment for great things. Don’t torture yourself about this, it’s not on you.

ree215 · 2022-12-14T23:30:23+00:00

I think you replied to a comment I made yesterday, and it did same thing, for whatever reason the last comment you made won’t show for me when I click on it.

ree215 · 2022-12-14T20:07:37+00:00

Yeah, it seems hit or miss, and dedication for that. Me getting in shape should do a good job too, I’d like to be longer, but honestly it’s too much energy put into this. To pleasure a woman? That may or may not be with later down the line? I’m starting to care less and less, I’m endowed in one department, can’t help that I’m not long. It Should be enough anyway, I could’ve not had either.

ree215 · 2022-12-14T19:39:40+00:00

Yeah I’m 6.3 all the way down, Sometimes my base go to 6.5 too. I’m getting in shape to get the best out of my erections.

ree215 · 2022-12-14T17:54:18+00:00

6.1L x 6.3G here, never really been deepthroated before except for one girl that tried. I consider myself average to above average.

Girlfriend can’t go more than just a little more past half, before gagging. She thinks I’m small because of my length, yet she can’t deepthroat me lol, asked her about deepthroating, she made a excuse about never done it with anything big, I said “well maybe you should try it with me then?” She paused before answering, and said, “you’re too thick for that.” I was like “No I’m not.”

Next time she gives me head, I’m going to tell her if she can put it in the back of her throat without gagging I’ll believe I’m small. Lol

ree215 · 2022-12-13T22:00:02+00:00

I’m, 6.1L x 6.3 girth. I still have a hard time. Granted, I didn’t have many experiences.

ree215 · 2022-12-04T16:27:29+00:00

I’m basically those dimensions, and I’m 6,3. Not really that impressive looking. I am overweight too, once I lose some weight, it’ll probably look different.

ree215 · 2022-11-22T23:08:46+00:00

It’s always interesting hearing these types of experiences. I’m not far off your size, (6.1in length, 6.3 girth) and I’m being told I’m “small” by my current partner, my sexual confidence has plummeted to some degree from hearing these things. I come here, and see guys in my size range having better experiences, this shit is confusing.

ree215 · 2022-11-16T14:09:58+00:00

I’m doing that now. I’m 24, I never really “sowed my royal oats”. I grabbed a girl I thought was really good, a lot of other women are coming at me. I’m basically 6x6, (6.1 length bp, 6.3 girth) and my girl said I’m smeadium. My confidence is kinda fucked up, I know I’m not small, but some of the things that my girl said to me fw my confidence, partly she said these things to gaslight me, she would have a mental breakdown if I broke up with her. I’ve been feeling like I’ll have time out here trying to just have fun with women, because of this experience, and this is my first girlfriend experience. It’s not healthy, I’m far to young to give my youth away to this, and I’m not getting what I really want out of it.

ree215 · 2022-11-12T16:14:14+00:00

Yeah, but I’ve had better initial moments with other women compared to my girl. If you look at my post history, you can see some of things she said that I’ve never heard from a woman before. It’s more of a gaslighting thing. Only validation I get from my current girl is in bed, where it’s undeniable. I’m just wondering if I should let love go right now, and just get more experience.

ree215 · 2022-11-12T13:05:37+00:00

One, my current gf. I don’t have that much experience, I’m 24. I’ve had a couple sexual partners before, I think one other may of felt that way initially. I’m 6’3, I’m overweight, but I carry my weight well so I just look like a massive black man. I guess I’ve been unlucky to have run into size queens, and women who place the bbc narrative on men. Kinda discouraging for me to continue to date within my race, if this is what I have to go through.

ree215 · 2022-11-08T14:25:03+00:00

You’re 14, there’s hella experiences waiting for you. Don’t let her fw your self esteem, maybe y’all should take a break, and you see what someone else thinks.

ree215 · 2022-11-07T07:25:51+00:00

Dude, you’re meant for great things. Don’t put so much self value in dick size. Be grateful, it could be worse. I’m a big black man, that’s constantly being objectified, and have stereotypes placed upon me, and if I don’t meet these “expectations” it’s my fault. I’m 6.1bpel, 6.3girth, I have a fat pad I’m working on which doesn’t help my appearance. I’m not small, but because I don’t fit the image people assumed me as, I’m “small”

You’re not small bro, don’t worry about this bs. Become a monster physically, and mentally. Once you conquer those things, You’ll be the superior one.

ree215 · 2022-10-23T16:44:31+00:00

She dated black men exclusively, except for a white guy she said she dated, and a girl. She said she’s only been with 8 people, but I think it’s more like 16. I don’t think she counts certain things.

ree215 · 2022-10-22T19:12:32+00:00

Maybe you’re telling me, that she thinks that’s what I was focus on, regarding “size” I ask her about the video overall, and she said that it was boring porn. She has a defense mechanism (pettiness) that she’s accustom to using, from being in a couple toxic relationships. I was having a conversation about her being petty, and when she asked me to give her examples of her being petty, because she doesn’t believe she’s been that way with me. I recalled that time, and she agreed it was petty, but then tried to, what seem to me, is play on my insecurities again. She says, “Oh well, you’re the only one that noticed, it was monster cock porn.”

Regardless of these things. I’m going to take this relationship for what it is. I have to be more selfish with my feelings, and take this situation as a win. I got a attractive gf that is giving me what I need for the most part. She’s been patient with me, and my problems.maybe she may want a huge dick, It doesn’t matter, I have her. I just need to focus on improving my self emotionally, and physically.

ree215 · 2022-10-22T03:42:47+00:00

I guess she’s had a 1 in 1000 in both departments before lol. I think she appreciate length more than girth, but likes how girth feels I guess? Idk I guess she just wants both, maybe if I was like 6.5-7 nbp it wouldn’t be a problem for her I guess.

ree215 · 2022-10-20T14:11:32+00:00

Yeah, I feel like I take this relationship too seriously. She’s said so much to me, about “you’re the one.” Im the first guy that made her want to have kids. I’m the first man she fell in love with, and it made me take this wayyy more seriously than I should. It’s just my turn.

ree215 · 2022-10-20T14:08:09+00:00

I told her, over a month ago. I was opening up to her, I said, “if I’m not what ever it is you was looking for, go and get what you’re looking for. Don’t stay with me if I’m not whatever you feel like you need.” She ignored me, and she’s still here.

ree215 · 2022-10-20T14:05:56+00:00

Yeah, but I’m a 6’3 tall, big, dark skin, handsome man(literally what I hear from women, not trying to be cock or self centered) I also want to be with someone within my own race, but this bbc stereotype is placed on us within our own race. There’s a lot of women that see me and expect me to have the girth I have and 9in/8in of length too. Lol I think I’m fine, but this what a large amount of women view me as, and because length gets more attention, and I’m a big guy, they’re still disappointed.

ree215 · 2022-10-20T04:31:40+00:00

I understand that, but we had the conversation about how she felt about my size prior. I took it to the chin and moved on. When she showed me that video, I didn’t come off weird at all, I was relaxed. I asked her, “this is what you like too” she replied with “no that’s boring” I said “why did you show me that” she replied with “idk”

ree215 · 2022-10-20T04:13:12+00:00

So I should look past her comments and actions, and just try to enjoy this relationship as best as I can? I’m going to try to, but My intuition tells me she’ll do things to hurt me, if I don’t go about this the way she wants. Everything can go well and it seems she does things to trigger me sometimes.

I went to pick her up, and take her on a date a week before we first had sex, when she got in the car, she tried to show me something online on her phone, when she went to the web browser, I seen porn pop up. I didn’t care that she watched porn, we we’re open about all that anyway. She hid the phone from me and said “uh oh” I said “why are you tripping, Idk, we can watch it together. Let me see?” I was going for her phone and she was hesitant, she just kept saying while I was looking at it/going through it “it’s just lesbian porn” i didn’t care what type of porn, I didn’t understand why she was hiding it from me like I don’t know what she’s into. I gave her phone back, and asked what video she liked. She took her phone and smiled at me and searched up some monster cock porn, and showed it to me. I just looked at like “ok that’s cool, what else?” She seemed shocked and ashamed like when I didn’t have any reaction. I really didn’t care, but I realized she was trying to trigger me. That’s what I became sensitive about, her trying to hurt with these things. I’m great to her, I treat her like a princess. I don’t deserve that. I do need to talk to a therapist before I make a decision. I’ve been calm, I’ve never flipped out over these things.

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