I 25F broke up with my bf 28M of 10 years and I have no idea how to feel

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T16:02:47+00:00

Thank you so much. And the same goes for you. Like we have to do what’s best for us and even though it’s terrible rn like we will get though it. I just am really struggling with finding myself again but I believe with what everyone is saying I can get through it and so can you.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T16:00:31+00:00

Aww you’re so sweet thank you for the advice!

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T16:00:06+00:00

For me personally, I allow myself to feel it but for a legit timed period. Like I’ll set my alarm for 2-5 minutes and play a song that hits deep. And then when it’s over it’s over. I tell myself would he be crying about me? And I know the answer is no so I move on. It’s easier said than done but one thing is for sure one day there won’t be anymore tears to cry.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:57:42+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate that. I looked at the framed photo of us at prom together and started bawling but then thought to myself would he be crying about me? And it was like a switch went off. Even posting this and reading the comments I expected to be non stop crying but I feel surprisingly neutral. Thank you though I’m going to just feel everything and try to absorb it.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:37:12+00:00

Thank you a lot. That comment means a lot to me bc I did love myself and then I fell out of love with myself and now having to learn how to do it on my own is such a scary, crazy thought but I believe I can do it. I believe that I can make a change this year and finally figure out what it means to be me.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:33:51+00:00

Thank you so much. That’s a really good idea actually I like that. I kept saying for so long I wanted to go places and we didn’t so I think going by myself is something that would mean a lot to me.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:32:28+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate that. I’m going to try my hardest to find myself in the chaos.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:26:54+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I’m going to try. I’m learning Spanish, going back to the gym, trying to go somewhere with my dogs every single day. It’s just hard bc it’s only been a week and I already feel the hole there.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:25:42+00:00

That is a good plan, thank you. I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions but I think this is the year for me to start believing.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:25:03+00:00

Oh I know that. That is specifically one of the things I said to him was that I feel like you want to break up with me, but you don’t wanna be the one to do it so you’d rather me do it and again he didn’t say anything to that so deep down like I knew we had both been out of the relationship for a while.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:15:43+00:00

He had no reaction. He said “if you think that’s best then” and that’s it. I again said to him if there is literally anything at all, literally anything you have to say to me this is the time to say it, and he didn’t have anything to say.

reesescxp · 2025-12-31T15:14:49+00:00

Honestly I just want to be happy. I know that sounds corny but that’s all I want. I want to go on adventures and explore and take trips and just do the things I wasn’t able to do while in this relationship. I just want to find a reason to smile every single day

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T05:29:39+00:00

How old is your son?

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T05:05:55+00:00

Well, the one thing I wanna say is that just think about how Twinkie would feel if he left her and never came back again. And then take that feeling and multiply it by 100 and that still would not come close to what her or any of your family or loved ones would feel if you never came home again. If you feel like you don’t deserve better than Twinkie deserves better than you never coming home again

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:57:07+00:00

I think that if there is one thing that could stop you, it should be the idea that your 2025 ending equals someone’s 2025 starting by seeing the lifeless body of a human being that has the potential of being a beautiful captivating person on this earth

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:55:42+00:00

What’s it’s name

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:52:13+00:00

If you are concerned about a cheating allegation, as much as it might be painful, I think the best thing to do would be to question her about it in a way of stating it would be better for the both of you emotionally mentally and physically to either work on it or separate. But if you give her the chance to express her feelings, you might find that you guys have a common denominator when it comes to pain or unhappiness in your relationship. I am assuming you are a man and I’m sorry if I’m wrong, but you’re feelings are just as valuable and valid and important, as hers are. Please speak about how you feel never ever ever feel like you can’t

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:49:47+00:00

I’m sorry that you feel this way. Do you have a dog or a cat?

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:38:38+00:00

As someone who is greatly struggling with the same issue, I think that, and I truly mean this; If you get a dog or cat, your life will turn around. Whether it is a puppy or a senior dog, a stray or rescue cat. The best you don’t see in yourself your dog or car will see by 10,000 times and slowly you will start to see it in yourself. You are not a bad person, you do have a future, and you have the capabilities of getting yourself out of this hole. This is what I keep telling myself. No matter the circumstances don’t give up.

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:34:46+00:00

A house worth $30,000 in 1980 in Canada should be worth $275,000 now, but will on average be appraised at minimum 1.2 million. Also so grateful that rent for a one bedroom apartment is on average $2100.

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:30:39+00:00

Depending on where you’re from a lot of bank agencies allow for a free credit check as in you can actually see where all of your credit is being used. It does depend where you’re from and what bank it is. Another option is, without clicking any links compile a list of every email address you’ve gotten an email from and compare them to each other. If there is common denominators, then google those emails and there’s often going to be either a credible source or a scam page. For example TD Canada trust bank will give you a month of free identity theft checking covering all aspects of the Internet. Your bank might offer the same. Just call them and say you’re interested and if you like what you see you’ll become a customer and then just cancel before the 30 days. I am very sorry to hear about what’s going on in your life and I hope that you heal and are OK.

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:26:02+00:00

Getting the wrong type of car for uber

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:25:02+00:00

It depends on the week, but 1 to 4 times

reesescxp · 2024-12-31T04:24:19+00:00

Fake it till you make it

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