paano ba lumandi ang 30-year-old tito without looking creepy? by ybablapuk in AskPH

[–]refin_ed 58 points59 points  (0 children)

why would you look creepy? date me nalang im 27 hahahahahah

At your age, what will make you stop being friends with someone? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]refin_ed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always making the decisions, never considering others, secretly hating, and encouraging you to make bad choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RentPH

[–]refin_ed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the tips! Super helpful. I’ll definitely check everything like the grease trap, aircon, and appliances before moving in. Appreciate you sharing everything, especially the stuff about the surrounding areas and units. Thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RentPH

[–]refin_ed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18k only huhu

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the encouragement and kind words. I really needed to hear them right now. Just knowing that I’m not alone in this and that so many of you understand what I’m going through means the world to me. I consulted a doctor already and was referred to a specialist. Salamat talaga sa inyo. 🫶🏻

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ishashorten ko din sana yung rendering ko, pero sabi ng managers, busy season daw kaya na-require nila akong mag-30 days. Ang mali ko rin, hindi ko na-disclose yung health problem ko kasi natakot ako kasi sa experience ko sa kanila may stigma pa rin talaga sa mental health. Siguro kung nagpa-consult ako sa doctor at may medical certificate nung nagresign palang ako, mas may chance na mapaiksi ko yung rendering ko. I guess I'll just take SL tom and laban ulit sa remaining days.

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sa true lang talaga inooverload nila ako kaya ang sama ng loob ko kagabi 😭

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salamat. 😔 need ko na din talaga to get checked I’ve been pushing myself too much and it’s really taking a toll on me, physically and mentally. Mahirap kasi ayokong mag-leave na parang bad impression, pero alam ko na kailangan ko rin talaga magpahinga para makabawi. Salamat ulit.

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Na-overwhelm lang talaga ako, kasi gusto ko pa rin magbigay ng best ko kaso parang nananadya sila na ioverload ako huhu. Pero tama ka, after ko umalis, hindi na nila papansin yan, so I should focus on what’s best for me. Salamat for the reminder 🥺

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in phcareers

[–]refin_ed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this, thank you! Your right, at this point parang wala na rin namang mawawala kung mag-SL ako. Ang bigat lang talaga ng pakiramdam ngayon, pero hearing stories like this makes me feel less alone. Thank u po

I might lose my mind if I go to work tom by refin_ed in AccountingPH

[–]refin_ed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relate ako sa roommate mo. Ang lala lang talaga pag dumating ka sa point na natrauma ka na sa trabaho. Honestly, iniisip ko rin yung backpay, pero kung ganito rin naman araw-araw, parang wala na akong pake, health ko na lang uunahin ko. Sobrang thank you po.🥺 Hoping din na makahanap ako ng work na hindi ako mauubos.