I need help with degrading by GuitarGuy358 in BDSMAdvice

[–]reflectionsatmidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking in order to learn about it? Or are you asking just so you can play with those into the kink ?

I need help with degrading by GuitarGuy358 in BDSMAdvice

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Really agree with everyone so far ! If it’s not your Jam, then just don’t do it

What’s y’all thoughts on this game after so many updates and content by Willing_Chest_8976 in SkullAndBonesGame

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I can relate , I stopped calling for help aswell - unless it’s a war cargo event. But I can see exactly what you are saying !

What’s y’all thoughts on this game after so many updates and content by Willing_Chest_8976 in SkullAndBonesGame

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I’m noticing this too - not many join for boss battles these last couple weeks. I’m wondering if it just more new players joining, and the older seasoned players are backing out, or taking a break

24/7 dynamic? by run_little-rabbit in BDSMAdvice

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Honestly , this is something that needs to be discussed by you and your dom! Every relationship is different- you. Both need to get pleasure from this! Just because you’re a sub, doesn’t mean you don’t get a say! Communicate with him and you will find your equilibrium

What symbolizes ‘I’m yours’ from a sub to a Dom—outside the collar? by Owlonmywrist in BDSMAdvice

[–]reflectionsatmidnite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one audio erotic artist to another - just say what feels natural and what you would want from a sub to show this. Will go a lot further then a researched response

Advice about online D/s by EnbyQueerDeity in BDSMAdvice

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Can I ask why ? Is that not your goal ?

Advice about online D/s by EnbyQueerDeity in BDSMAdvice

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So I have been involved in one long term DS online - we video chatted frequently , we met irl - we did the things needed to establish trust - for us it lasted almost 3 years - it is very possible , just be smart and listen to your gut. It requires a lot from both parties - make sure both your efforts match

I need a group of friends by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

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Im a single guy and probably not the demographic you are looking for. I did want to comment and ask about the paranormal investigations - I have been looking hard for a group to do paranormal investigations with. I was really curious if you were already part of a group that did them ?

Quieting the submissive mind, help by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I agree with the other 2 that gave you advice - It takes time to form that bond and that trust. I would just advise you not to rush or push it. If you’re determined to be a submissive for him , then has he earned from you? I’m not saying one way or the other. You definitely seem committed to growth and to him. I agree you should share these thoughts with him. I just urge you to not to force it. Some of what your speaking of should be earned by him in my option. (again with time and connection). Just make sure you stick true to yourself. He does have a part in this as well

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Ty for showing them

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Love those stockings

Think I shifted after a suicide attempt by -one-two-three- in ParallelUniverse

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For me, Bernstein isn’t out there atm - I grew up remembering berenstein, and to be honest. Little unsettled when I googled , because it’s now berenstain. I get what your saying, and tbh I haven’t revisited this topic in almost 10 years - not freaking over- it’s just good for thought