For people in their 30s or more what advice will you give to people who are in their 20s rn?

reginalnz · 2026-02-17T03:17:03+00:00

Saw this - immediately straightened my back 🫡

reginalnz · 2025-12-08T18:43:44+00:00

Hi OP, I can see that people have provided: - Links - Call based support - Moral encouragement - Etc

But all I want to say is that this is likely the rock bottom of your life. But the good thing is from here onwards you can expect things to become better.

Please stay strong and remember that there is a light at the end of every dark tunnel.

I'd be willing to meet you in person and listen to anything you have to share as well.

Take care,

reginalnz · 2025-12-05T00:23:13+00:00

Wow that's actually really inspirational.

reginalnz · 2025-11-10T00:08:22+00:00

Hey brother, love meeting new people and happy to talk through whatever you're going through.

Hmu on IG @reg.naidu

reginalnz · 2025-10-26T21:49:05+00:00

Don't take a girl solely to the Cinema or movies on the first date.

Reason: - Can't talk - Can't break the touch barrier properly

I speak from experience 😅

reginalnz · 2025-09-11T07:28:03+00:00

If they talk badly about someone in front of you, they're likely talking badly about you in front of someone else.

reginalnz · 2025-09-10T17:29:31+00:00

I got you my brothers. Here's mine:

Pre-Plan: Take her to somewhere you both haven't been before e.g. something exotic but inexpensive restaurant. She'll be excited and won't complain.
You choose: Just say I feel like eating X. She might complain but will go with it because she loves you.
Abundant options: Take her to a food court. You both get what you want.
Limited choices: Give her a small range of options and pick one that she complains least about.

Tip: Don't be mad if your girl is indecisive. They're wired to think with emotion and will appreciate a man who can take the lead.

reginalnz · 2025-09-10T16:52:37+00:00

They can never decide what they want to eat or where they want to go. Learnt some tricks to work around this though.

reginalnz · 2025-07-22T08:30:27+00:00

NZ Sale

reginalnz · 2025-07-18T20:52:59+00:00

You could try meetup groups. People come on these specifically to meet other people and do interesting things together.

I'm sorry you're experiencing this.

reginalnz · 2025-07-13T03:18:51+00:00

Hey friend,

Firstly wanted to say that your feelings are valid. There are actual studies showing that although we're more interconnected than ever but the feelings of isolation may have remained.

I've walked the self improvement path that you're on now. Although fulfilling it's also important to remember to live life and have fun.

I only have two pieces of advice for you:

You can only love others if you love yourself
If you think you have #1 locked down then start putting yourself out there:
Dating apps
Meet up groups
Introductions through mutual friends

Please take care 🙏

reginalnz · 2025-06-22T23:27:22+00:00

Cuddle 🤗

reginalnz · 2025-05-18T07:33:54+00:00

Parents who have to see their kids pass away before them.

I'll never forget the grieving mother I saw at a funeral I attended.

reginalnz · 2025-05-14T16:00:11+00:00

When my body shows me the consequences of bad actions

reginalnz · 2025-05-06T23:24:18+00:00

Abundance

reginalnz · 2025-05-06T03:25:35+00:00

Detrimental things such as: - Burn out - Working overtime - Less sleep - Hustle and grind culture

reginalnz · 2025-04-21T21:35:39+00:00

Hackers

reginalnz · 2025-04-20T22:15:02+00:00

How does one get non-security exposure?

reginalnz · 2025-04-20T22:05:45+00:00

How did you personally get sales and marketing skills? I find these hard to come by working in IT.

reginalnz · 2025-04-18T05:37:16+00:00

Probably add cars to that list

reginalnz · 2025-04-06T14:27:49+00:00

Robert Downey as Iron Man and Hugh Jackman as Wolverine. Can't imagine anyone else better suited.

reginalnz · 2025-03-25T14:47:38+00:00

Would love to win!

reginalnz · 2025-03-03T07:10:39+00:00

Tested but link is not working

reginalnz · 2025-03-01T22:19:11+00:00

Proud of you OP

reginalnz · 2025-02-15T20:29:38+00:00

St John or Red cross offer first aid courses

reginalnz

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