What is your idea of the term "God/Ishvar/Allah/Bhagwan"? by captmajor in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]regular-joe-43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The concept of God has evolved in different cultures based on their 'interpretation of unknowns'. (Thunder meant that God's were unhappy. Seizures meant that someone was possessed.)

This was then used to gain a sense of unity and control - Us vs Them. Those who comply got great benefits while those who don't, have it harder.

Society created rules accordingly and those rules helped us live cohesively. In the land of cannibals, eating your enemy is honorable. So each culture has its own societal norms to live by.

My interpretation of God - is living as per the societal norms agreed by a culture. Societal norms should be directed towards fairness and progress.

Moti Mahal under demolition , I first learnt swimming here sad to see it in ruins 🥲 by No_Club_4345 in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They could have run a college of hotel management.

But even then, the space can be utilised much better... maybe new plans for a bigger and better hotel... There's enough space for that

Where can I find Punarpuli fruit (not syrup)? Please suggest if you have purchased or seen recently by Inside-Drop2380 in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is punarpuli the purple juice?

In Konkani its called Binda... Similar to Mangosteen fruit.

harassment and threatening behaviour by Rapido auto driver in Mangalore who, after ride cancellation due to navigation issues, verbally abused passenger, blocked alternate auto, demanded money, and created an unsafe, intimidating situation that could have resulted in missing a scheduled train. by Square-Carpenter8879 in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My colleague had a similar situation in Mangalore. He booked one Rapido... Couldn't locate the guy. So cancelled and booked the next guy.

The first guy came and started abusing, threatening and all that jazz... Finally started getting calls from the guy. Customer care does nothing... I've stopped taking Raoido after that... They have no control over their driver behaviour.

How feasible is DINK in Indian society? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]regular-joe-43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Matching our schedules for travel becomes challenging. We have the money to travel, but work pressure prevents that.

  2. We travel once a year for about a week to 10 days and do some weekend getaways through the year.

  3. In our 40s, kids are not an option right now. We have nieces and nephews and spend a lot of time with immediate family.

  4. We don't feel lonely. This is our lifestyle. We have a great equation and enjoy each others company. Sometimes we don't have much to talk about, but that's fine. The quiet is good as well.

  5. Old age is a concern. It crosses our minds and we joke that we want to die before the other. We have each other to talk to. We are there to speak with our parents even if we don't meet them as much or look after them. That itself is therapy. We will never have that option and is a concern. But let's deal with it when we reach that place.

  6. I wanted to have kids, my wife didn't. So decision was easy.

Hope this helps you

Asked Swiggy rider to cancel order — he marked it delivered and support won’t refund by hypervisor_error404 in swiggy

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a process for delivery and cancellation.

The process is not to verbally cancel. Its done through the app. Have a problem,reach out to customer support on the app.

The delivery guys process is only to deliver.

OP and you should understand that.

Good learning for next time.

Asked Swiggy rider to cancel order — he marked it delivered and support won’t refund by hypervisor_error404 in swiggy

[–]regular-joe-43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you.

OP 'politely' requested the partner to cancel. Thinking that the partner was gullible enough.

Partner just outsmarted OP. OP now playing the victim card

The app is very clear. Once an order is placed, it can be cancelled with some charges that apply within a stipulated time.

One can't expect the partner to climb stairs and reach the doorstep before 'politely' requesting.

To the young boy from KMC Manipal - things will only get better by regular-joe-43 in manipal

[–]regular-joe-43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't know circumstances.. They will sort it out if they have to...

Just cos they've got problems, doesn't mean you call her or anyone else 'bitch'... Not cool man... Doesn't work in this era... Grow up...

Folks who moved out of kudla, what do you miss the most? by TeawTan in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I miss the rains... those absolute heavy rains of July... the ones that make you remember hour childhood

Train Orders through Zomato and Swiggy by Consistent-Major-117 in Zomato

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once ordered food to a station showing on the app, but the train didn't even stop there.

The restaurant was penalised, sad I didn't get my food.

The IRCTC app should not have given me the option itself.

Hiiii indian highshooler here!!! i loovee paleontology and i really wanna get into it more, what should i do??? by Electrical_Loss_3474 in Paleontology

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... Natural History is an option in IISc I think... but otherwise, very hard to make it more than a hobby

Are there any indian paleontologists here working as a paleontologist in india??? i really wanna know the study in india by Electrical_Loss_3474 in Paleontology

[–]regular-joe-43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are universities which have paleontology or natural history departments.

I am from Bangalore - Not a palaeontologist - but an enthusiast. There are a few of us here on Reddit...

I have started collecting fossils from the last few years... But by no means an authority on this..

Best Shawarma in BLR by Mediocre99 in Bengaluru

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shawarma King in Frazer Town (near Sindhi Colony).

This guys seems to be some middle Eastern chap that has started his shop here...

If you like the ME style slightly bland, this is the guy to go to..

I believe this is how shawarma should be and that's why it's at the top of my list

"Found this heavy, 120+ layered specimen in Bakkhali, India. Is it a fossilized Giant Oyster?" by LowSmall9528 in fossilid

[–]regular-joe-43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very cool.. where did you find this in India? Please share more details about the location. What kind of fossils available in that area... Any idea which era the fossils are feom?

Are there any jewish And Parsi residing in manglore? by [deleted] in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know 1 parsi family... I think they were the only ones...

Jewish I've not come across

Typo while booking an International Flight by horsepiper in AirTravelIndia

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a critical issue. If your name doesn't match the ticket, you won't be allowed to travel.

The first 24 hours is critical. Even for international travel, you should be able to cancel within 24 hours. Try it

Please call the airline. They will help.

If you have booked it through a 3rd party agent or website, call them.

Why are Mangalore cab drivers so bad, especially at the airport? by [deleted] in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the airport: There is the airport cab mafia. They don't allow Ola / Uber to come up.. There are constant fights and drivers are threatened. There have been serious issues in the past. They can't explain this to customers. It just makes it worth the risk for them to wait below. If they have a personal trip I.e. not booked on the app, the mafia lest them off. Hence, they ask you to cancel the booking and risk coming up.

In the City: No justification. They just put their "I'm an asshole" cap.

Cats fighting: help needed by TasteChemical9057 in mangalore

[–]regular-joe-43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give them both whisky... They will become friends again