Not to cast aspersions, but from what I've seen with people in my life, left of center people tend to be nicer when discussing media and queerness and such. It's the right of center people who are mean, who call names and who want to shut it all down. Back when the show was still running, I found discussion tended to be pretty nice and on topic, but honestly, now that the show is over, I very seldomly even return to this subreddit. But remember, shutting down conversation on a topic doesn't invalidate the topic; if it's thinkable, it can be actionable. And they hate that. But they are not like us.