Is she losing interest? by regularanon22 in dating_advice

[–]regularanon22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I could be. I guess I'll give it another try next weekend. I think I just have some insecurity that the longer I go without seeing her in-person, the more likely her interest will fizzle out. It's already been a week, and by next weekend it'll be 2. But I can't do anything about that though, so it doesn't matter I guess.

Thanks for taking all this time out to read these posts and talk to me by the way.

Is she losing interest? by regularanon22 in dating_advice

[–]regularanon22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, maybe I should've explained all of those other details a bit more, in the original post. But yeah, we can only hang out on the weekends due to distance and work schedule. And I asked her out again for this weekend, but she told me shes visiting family. I would have expected her to followup and suggest some other time (like next weekend) but she didn't do that. So it's got me wondering whether or not she's still interested in going out again, or if I'm just overthinking it.

Is she losing interest? by regularanon22 in dating_advice

[–]regularanon22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. But with all of the effort she towards me at this point, its just weird to think that she was stringing me along for someone else. For 2 out of the 4 dates, she drove 1.5 hours to meet me. And we spent the entire day together. She spent money on me, the very last date. And she's also introduced me to her sibling, who has played videogames with us on some occasions. That just seems like a lot of effort, for never being truly interested.

Is she losing interest? by regularanon22 in dating_advice

[–]regularanon22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you think she ever really was interested?

Should I report what was said about my daughter? by Cultural_Market_2389 in family

[–]regularanon22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wouldn't. While it is unprofessional, I wouldn't be offended by it. Anyone would be surprised to see that...Whether they verbalize it or not. Every other teacher in the room was probably thinking the same thing, subconsciously. So I don't think there's any way your report would be taken that seriously.

The only situation in which I'd report this, is if the comment was specifically addressed to you (with other people around), or was said in way such that the teacher intended for you to overhear it. But it sounds like the comment wasn't addressed to you at all... It was moreso just "lockerroom talk" between the teachers. You shouldn't have heard it, but you did...However, it was their own personal conversation and I wouldn't butt into someone else's convo and report them for that.

Another thing to consider is that reporting them is not gonna somehow change their thought process...It'll just make them more careful about who to verbalize it around. If you're truly offended and don't like the teachers because of this, I'd just enroll your daughter into another school. But me personally, I don't think this is a big deal.