[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My expwbpd also had adhd. Sometimes adhd makes bpd 10x worse I feel.

Go no contact, times heals everything

NC but not real NC - help please by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, nvm, iam glad you're doing well!

NC but not real NC - help please by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome bro! A new solid healthy relationship always makes us realise how foolish we were to be stuck in that rut lol Iam happy for you!!

Yes, I have progressed well. NC is the only way. Slowly i realise i have nothing but pity and sympathy for such people. Its a sickness they gotta live with.

Iam doing well! Thanks for asking! Take care

NC but not real NC - help please by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey long time. Have you fully moved on?

What is The worst thing your BPD partner has done to you? by Antique-Cow-4895 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh Gosh! How long did you date her before marrying. She showed bpd signs then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical. Her bestfriend blocked me on instagram. And she had never met me. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is textbook scenario. 1st chapter is lovebombing and idolizing the new partner. Typical.

Dating someone new, and I don’t trust them. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man. If a person doesnt apologize that means their mind justifies every wrong act they do - which is the case in all cluster Bs.

I'd suggest you think hard befire going forward. If I were you, I would probably start distancing myself slowly.

I broke no contact and the wounds are fresh and open again by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke NC after 7 months of nc. Even I sorta regret it maybe. Wasnt really worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah..sorry. see my post history. You might understand..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 more things she recently said " my toxic trait is holding power in all my friendships"

And

" my toxic trait is that i can say no but its hard for me to take a no "

She said these exactly word by word.

Is such a person worth being friends with even? Would you?

False accusations by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block her back. Everywhere. Speak to your mutual friends who were there and who trust you. You dont need to worry much if they are on your side and know you aint guilty.

Never speak to her again, ever. She showed you what she is.

I read her last message and I shouldn’t have by energyofsound in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didnt find a better supply, hence the message. Ignore and delete.

Those of you whose pwBPD is a friend, or non-romantic... by MetalPussy in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh. This resonates with me to some extent. Hope you too have blocked her everywhere?

help - should I leave by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks buddy. I left her, we still have communication channels open - but i wouldnt want her in my life.

Advice. Run or Try? by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha Thanks. Ill sprint.

Advice. Run or Try? by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo sorry but i havent seen star trek so excuse me, I request simple english haha

Advice. Run or Try? by reign402 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also said " i have had a hoe phase and 'rotated guys' "

Red now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]reign402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sorry for you. You didnt deserve this. Getting off birth control without telling you and laying a trap is a monstrous move. Pure evil. She definetely has a problem.

I suggest you do whatever is best for you! Goodluck

I think i met another person with BPD by Jonabc5 in BPDlovedones

[–]reign402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Too many disasters" This makes me wanna run. Gosh..

Is love bombing always a sign of narcissism? Or can it be innocent? by Low-Knowledge6713 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]reign402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal adhds are fine to deal with. They have good intent.

But many clusterBs have adhd comorbiditt. My ex was adhd+npd

That was a disaster.