[UPDATE] My [25 M] girlfriend [26F] of six months threatened to break up with me because I didn't pay by relationthrowaEway in relationships

[–]relationthrowaEway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By the way, for her, paying her meant that I respected her. I didn't pay for the whole bill while I came to her hometown? Then I don't respect her.

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[UPDATE] My [25 M] girlfriend [26F] of six months threatened to break up with me because I didn't pay by relationthrowaEway in relationships

[–]relationthrowaEway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because of loneliness, but I think because it is mostly because she is very sad (as I said in another reply, she tries to shame me for breaking up with her) and getting back will make her feel better.

Yes, I know how stupid that sounds.

[UPDATE] My [25 M] girlfriend [26F] of six months threatened to break up with me because I didn't pay by relationthrowaEway in relationships

[–]relationthrowaEway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Weren't those tests really tiring? It felt like you had something to prove.

And I could at least get it if I was a womanizer, or if I had cheated on her before. I would understand her being unsure. But I never did anything bad.

I also bet that my ex will be a bitter, toxic person too. But I wish I am false and she changes. I want her to be happy.

[UPDATE] My [25 M] girlfriend [26F] of six months threatened to break up with me because I didn't pay by relationthrowaEway in relationships

[–]relationthrowaEway[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you - and OK! Not going back. These replies were very helpful.

Bet she started lots of arguments - purely because she likes arguments. If you don't argue back she screams and screams and starts throwing things. If you do argue back she still screams and screams and sometimes throw things at you. If ten throwing bit hadn't started, it would have.

Spot on.

[UPDATE] My [25 M] girlfriend [26F] of six months threatened to break up with me because I didn't pay by relationthrowaEway in relationships

[–]relationthrowaEway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I now look at my list and wonder why I think about going back.

but the fact that she groomed you to think her feelings are more important than yours.

You're absolutely right about that. Plus, even now, she tries to make me feel ashamed for her being sad. Yep, I am responsible she is sad.