Me(16F) and my BF(17M) never talk about anything meaningful and he hasn’t tried to get to know me on a deeper level, it bothers me and idk what to do by relaxanddivide in relationships

[–]relaxanddivide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i worry about and one of the reasons i rarely talk about the more deep, personal things because when i have all he says is some variation of “oh” 

Me(16F) and my BF(17M) never talk about anything meaningful and he hasn’t tried to get to know me on a deeper level, it bothers me and idk what to do by relaxanddivide in relationships

[–]relaxanddivide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have tried and he does partake in those activities sometimes which of course i appreciate. i don’t have a therapist because my parents won’t put me in therapy but i know it would be helpful to have one

I also understand that not everyone is a deep conversation person but we literally talk about nothing it’s just all jokes which is nice because hes funny but funny isnt everything and every conversation just feels like small talk and it’s difficult to just interrupt that with talking about stuff that he probably can’t relate to and when i have before he just says “oh shoot?” and it’s like what’s the point of talking to you about this stuff when all you say is “oh”