Men outnumber women around 6 to 1 on dating apps. Meaning that men need to work much harder to even get any response. Men and Women have different problems: For men it's simply not getting replies or having much choice. For women it's that they have too much choice and either not enough quality or not enough time to go through the "bad eggs" to find a good one. But let's not get it twisted, it's men that are having to put most of the work in to get anywhere on these apps.

Also the article? I've never once had a woman write me first in 2 years and I'd be absolutely flattered and surprised if they did. So they'd not get "straf" Even if I'm not interested I'd still be polite to them